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Old 03-03-2012, 10:23 AM #1
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Student, 18, moves in with computer teacher, 41, after he leaves wife and children and quits job

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is this right or wrong morally, the forum must decide!

I'd say it was not wrong, but it's going to end in tears probably.
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he was texting her when she was underage, it is wrong
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but if they're happy is it wrong?
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You've got to ask yourself why someone as good looking as her is going out with him.. one of those questions in life that need to be answered
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If he was a millionaire and she was a model, no one would bat an eye.
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You've got to ask yourself why someone as good looking as her is going out with him.. one of those questions in life that need to be answered
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She is really good-looking though
But it depends if she was the 'pusher' for it to happen or him and if anything illegal happened before she turned 18 I guess. They do look happy

Its weird though because when hes 82 she'll only be 59......

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I feel sorry for his wife and kids. You would have to wonder what an 18 year old school kid and a married 41 year old with a wife and kids have in common though.
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Wrong, he was grooming her before she was 18. The mother has every right to be angry, this man sounds like a sick pervert.
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She is really good-looking though
But it depends if she was the 'pusher' for it to happen or him and if anything illegal happened before she turned 18 I guess. They do look happy

Its weird though because when hes 82 she'll only be 36......
Do you really think they'll still be together then?
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its not going to last is it ? after a few weeks what are they going to say to each other ?
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it depends if she entered the relationship of her own free will, or, as said, if he was grooming her.
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Wrong - teachers should not instigate, encourage or perpetuate sexual relationships with any pupil at the school where they work - any sexual relationships, consummated or not, formed by a middle-aged man with "schoolchildren" should be cause for police investigation .....
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it happens every day of the week,even on big brother, aaron and faye!
11 years between them he is still married with a kid, not the same sitation but not far away,
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Wrong - teachers should not instigate, encourage or perpetuate sexual relationships with any pupil at the school where they work - any sexual relationships, consummated or not, formed by a middle-aged man with "schoolchildren" should be cause for police investigation .....
he quit his job before they moved in togeter
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tbf to them they do seem to have lasted quite a while. If it were just a fling it would be over by now I'd have thought.
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he quit his job before they moved in togeter
Their "relationship" began long before that ..... Mrs Powers discovered up to 8,000 text messages exchanged between them, emails and late night phone calls.


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She is really good-looking though
But it depends if she was the 'pusher' for it to happen or him and if anything illegal happened before she turned 18 I guess. They do look happy

Its weird though because when hes 82 she'll only be 36......
When he's 82, she'll be 59, surely...

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in some countries an 11 year old girl is married off to a 40 year old man,
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the student/teacher thing and whether the relationship was mutual and not grooming is the problem really, the age isn't really a big deal imo
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he was giveing her sex education!
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the student/teacher thing is the only problem really, the age isn't really a big deal imo
I agree the school thing definitely seems to be the more disturbing issue
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I just doubled their ages for some reason vjiorvhniethvnoi /niall

Thats not THAT bad tbf. My nextdoor neighbours got together at 19 and 40-something but they were both prison wardens. Its not that uncommon its just the fact it developed in a school environment and he had a wife and kids.

Our neighbours have been together a good 5 years now and have a kid. It can work... (and shes gorgeous too!)
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I agree the school thing definitely seems to be the more disturbing issue
I'm torn by this tbh, I know it's legal and all but I can't help thinking about if it was my daughter and I think I would be livid at the man. I know 18 is technically an adult and maybe in a less seedy kind of set up, it wouldn't be as bad but the fact that he was her teacher and he left a wife and kids, doesn't paint the most honourable picture of the man imo
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