[Pyramid*]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

I think I may have read your post wrong, on second thoughts

Is there room in this thread for a LOL.....

I think my last post would hopefully explain more 'where I'm coming from'?

Thing is Vicky: you're very directly involved. You are also emotionally involed - and to have a distant perspective from an 'outsider' (which mums' surgeon would no doubt have) - is worlds apart - so dont' misunderstand me here: I feel heart sorry for everyone involved. Truly.