[Mrluvaluva]

My mother was cremated. We scattered her ashes on a hillside by a lighthouse overlooking the sea in Anglesey. I always think of her being free, in a place she loved, and part of the landscape, in whatever form. I wouldn't like to think of her being in the ground. It's a calm and tranquil place, and it was her wish. She also has a gravestone at the local church, but it's not where she is. I prefer to think of her as a spirit, rather than a body in the ground. Everybody's different though.