[jet]

Originally Posted by flamingGalah!

If someone was once addicted to drugs in your eyes are they forever more a junkie??

If someone was once an alcoholic, are they always going to be a pi**head??

People can & DO change, it is very unfair & extremely silly of you to base your opinons of someone on things from their past (& trashy tabloid versions of those things to boot)...

You are of course perfectly entitled to your opinion, but don't make out that Jim is STILL a homophobic, wife beater & make that out as fact.

I'm not basing it just on the past. I don't believe he's changed that much watching him in the house. He's bursting at the seams trying to hold in his anger and keep his nastiness under wraps. But it keeps spilling out in little trickles. It's not my fault I'm very perceptive and pick on on little signs and nuances like that.

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by jet

I'm not basing it just on the past. I don't believe he's changed that much watching him in the house. He's bursting at the seams trying to hold in his anger and keep his nastiness under wraps. But it keeps spilling out in little trickles. It's not my fault I'm very perceptive and pick on on little signs and nuances like that.

No not getting it, seems calm and unruffled to me and doesn't suffer fools

[jet]

Originally Posted by Cherie

No not getting it, seems calm and unruffled to me and doesn't suffer fools

Other people here have seen what I have too, so it's not just me that has the gift.

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by jet

Other people here have seen what I have too, so it's not just me that has the gift.

And others have seen what I have you are not the only one with the gift

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Cherie

And others have seen what I have you are not the only one with the gift

..haha, the best gift of all is that smiley gift....

[jet]

Originally Posted by Ammi

..haha, the best gift of all is that smiley gift....

It's the winner!

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by jet

It's a good one.

..I think it's the most multi purpose smiley on the forum and it's a really 'cute annoyed/angry..' as well...



.....

[chuff me dizzy]

Originally Posted by jet

I'm not basing it just on the past. I don't believe he's changed that much watching him in the house. He's bursting at the seams trying to hold in his anger and keep his nastiness under wraps. But it keeps spilling out in little trickles. It's not my fault I'm very perceptive and pick on on little signs and nuances like that.

But whilstever he IS holding it under wraps what is there to complain about? and its a tad arrogant to know what people are thinking dont you think ?

[joeysteele]

Originally Posted by jet

I'm not basing it just on the past. I don't believe he's changed that much watching him in the house. He's bursting at the seams trying to hold in his anger and keep his nastiness under wraps. But it keeps spilling out in little trickles. It's not my fault I'm very perceptive and pick on on little signs and nuances like that.

Hi jet, I accept you hold your strong views as to Jim and I would never say you are wrong to have those views.
You have your opinion of him and that is your right.

I myself don't care at all for a lot of what he has done and said in the past and indeed I am surprised that I have come to even like him as a housemate.
I have though because he is doing exactly what you say,controlling himself in the main, which is something he 'never' could have done in the past.

For me however, how he is contolling his temper,I haven't a clue while he is around the vicious and miserable and awful Linda Nolan,who is also trying to push all buttons to make him look really bad herself.
Even I would have likely flared up at her by now bigtime already.

[jet]

Originally Posted by joeysteele

Hi jet, I accept you hold your strong views as to Jim and I would never say you are wrong to have those views.
You have your opinion of him and that is your right.

I myself don't care at all for a lot of what he has done and said in the past and indeed I am surprised that I have come to even like him as a housemate.
I have though because he is doing exactly what you say,controlling himself in the main, which is something he 'never' could have done in the past.

For me however, how he is contolling his temper,I haven't a clue while he is around the vicious and miserable and awful Linda Nolan,who is also trying to push all buttons to make him look really bad herself.
Even I would have likely flared up at her by now bigtime already.

Thanks Joey, I always respect and value your opinions.
For me, they are pushing each others buttons. Jim isn't blameless here. I'd love to know what is behind him saying to her last night for the 3rd time in a week "Like another vat of wine dear?" before turning his back on her. Something to do with their past, I suppose?
Their spats are quite intriguing and a lot more interesting than the cringe worthy showmance so its all good.