[Kyle]

Originally Posted by Lee.

It happens a lot.. Every single one if my friends is in a happy monogamous relationship.. Obviously there's no guarantee that every couple will be together till death do them part, but to most people shagging around won't make them any happier.

Agreed.

I have no idea why the OP can't seem to let go trying to convince people it will make relationships better if we 'pretend' not to care about our partners having sex with other people.

[daniel-lewis-1985]

Originally Posted by Kyle

Agreed.

I have no idea why the OP can't seem to let go trying to convince people it will make relationships better if we 'pretend' not to care about our partners having sex with other people.

Im not im just discussing something I had never considered before and a lot of points do actually make sense.

I don't agree that having lots of sex with different people is 100% ok and I couldn't do it but I see her point that being open and honest from the start and not expect everything to be perfect is spot on.

I think going into a relationship its probably more healthy to take the approach of seeing where it goes and not pressurise it by commiting to each other straight away.

I guess I just have the ability to look at both sides of an opinion.

[Kyle]

Originally Posted by daniel-lewis-1985

Im not im just discussing something I had never considered before and a lot of points do actually make sense.

And that's fair enough mate if you think they make sense to you then I don't see why you can't apply it to your life. If your straightforward with your partner and they agree why not.

[Kyle]

Originally Posted by daniel-lewis-1985

I guess I just have the ability to look at both sides of an opinion.

Haw I didn't see this bit when I made my reply. If that's supposed to insult me you'll have to do better than that chief.

[daniel-lewis-1985]

Originally Posted by Kyle

Haw I didn't see this bit when I made my reply. If that's supposed to insult me you'll have to do better than that chief.

Yeah sorry lol that was a bit of a dig.

[Kyle]

Originally Posted by daniel-lewis-1985

Yeah sorry lol that was a bit of a dig.

[daniel-lewis-1985]

Originally Posted by Kyle

Agreed.

I have no idea why the OP can't seem to let go trying to convince people it will make relationships better if we 'pretend' not to care about our partners having sex with other people.

I don't agree that having lots of sex with different people is ok and I couldn't do it but I see her point that being open and honest from the start and not expect everything to be perfect is spot on.

I think going into a relationship its probably more healthy to take the approach of seeing where it goes and not pressurise it by commiting to each other straight away.