[daniel-lewis-1985]

Originally Posted by Kyle

Agreed.

I have no idea why the OP can't seem to let go trying to convince people it will make relationships better if we 'pretend' not to care about our partners having sex with other people.

Im not im just discussing something I had never considered before and a lot of points do actually make sense.

I don't agree that having lots of sex with different people is 100% ok and I couldn't do it but I see her point that being open and honest from the start and not expect everything to be perfect is spot on.

I think going into a relationship its probably more healthy to take the approach of seeing where it goes and not pressurise it by commiting to each other straight away.

I guess I just have the ability to look at both sides of an opinion.