[rubymoo]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Good advice there Ruby

Thanks Niamh

It's just my experience with some of the men in my life, one being my own dad, one being my dad in law, one being my brother-in-law, and one being my friends ex husband.

It seems with these men they just aim to please their new partners and to hell with everyone else, the sad thing is that ultimately they have missed out on their families (whether they be children or grandchildren).

And sadly they will end up very lonely old men, i'm a big believer in you reap what you sow.