[Crimson Dynamo]

yeah Kyle

[-Sue-]

Originally Posted by Kyle

I love this, this should be in the official welcome pack when you sign up to the forum.

Sorry to hear about your experience, for the record I think sometimes harmless teasing and playfulness can come across to some people as being aggressive and bullying because really there's no context a lot of the time. We don't see people's faces so we don't have a lot to go on when deciding how to take things. Hopefully that's what really happened to you and nothing malicious even though that doesn't surprise me.

Ty for your reply It's all good honest I just need to find my place to fit it.. other than just BB

It can be a tough crowd on here but sometimes I like that too makes it something to discuss/challenge without breaking rules I am sure if I spent more time on here people would get to know me more and vice versa it's just finding that place to 'fit in' other than me talking the legs off a donkey hoping someone will reply

[Kyle]

Originally Posted by Josy

We see people's faces if they post in mtm kyle

I posted a long time ago Josy and loads of people here have me on Facebook. You're more than welcome to if you're not too cool to have Tibb friends

[Josy]

Sue you should honestly just go into one of the chat threads and start posting I know it can seem a little daunting at first but not for long

[-Sue-]

Originally Posted by Josy

Sue you should honestly just go into one of the chat threads and start posting I know it can seem a little daunting at first but not for long

lol indeed its just finding the right one

I love Tibb been on here years (despite my lack of countable decent posts) just need to find that place to call home off season

[Josy]

Originally Posted by Kyle

I posted a long time ago Josy and loads of people here have me on Facebook. You're more than welcome to if you're not too cool to have Tibb friends

I'm more an instagram type of person tbf

[Josy]

Originally Posted by -Sue-

lol indeed its just finding the right one

I love Tibb been on here years (despite my lack of countable decent posts) just need to find that place to call home off season

Well the main chat thread right now is in the private section at the top of this section. You should pop in.

[Kyle]

Originally Posted by -Sue-

lol indeed its just finding the right one

I love Tibb been on here years (despite my lack of countable decent posts) just need to find that place to call home off season

Oh I wouldn't worry about that. LT has 37,000 and you can count on one hand the amount of quality insightful things he's said. Wheras I have just 5,000 and each one is lovingly crafted, hand sculpted and written with grate care for spelling and grammer to make sure it is the absolute top qualitee that befits a post from the Kyle name. It's all about the quality not the quantity

Originally Posted by Josy

I'm more an instagram type of person tbf

Bloody hipster

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by -Sue-

Ty for your reply It's all good honest I just need to find my place to fit it.. other than just BB

It can be a tough crowd on here but sometimes I like that too makes it something to discuss/challenge without breaking rules I am sure if I spent more time on here people would get to know me more and vice versa it's just finding that place to 'fit in' other than me talking the legs off a donkey hoping someone will reply

I think the knack is to say your piece and not expect a reply, I've noticed a lot of people join a thread and I can be guilty of this myself and not bother reading the previous posts so I could be repeating what you said, and you might be thinking she could have just quoted me or agreed with me, also take some comments with a pinch of salt, or a vat of wine (Fridays only )

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by Kyle

Oh I wouldn't worry about that. LT has 37,000 and you can count on one hand the amount of quality insightful things he's said. Wheras I have just 5,000 and each one is lovingly crafted, hand sculpted and written with grate care for spelling and grammer to make sure it is the absolute top qualitee that befits a post from the Kyle name. It's all about the quality not the quantity
:

you read my mind

[Kyle]

Basically you have to not expect a reply. I'm guilty myself sometimes of just going to a thread and posting without reading the other comments so basically I could be parroting what somebody else has said and they might think I'm quoting them and well, it's a mess.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by -Sue-

LOL I changed my name due to being bullied/teased/missunderstood..

I remember when I first came to TIBB met people I thought were 'ok' only to find out they were 'insane' and talk outta their arse... so now I keep myself to myself I do know it can be very it's not 'what you know' but 'who you know' at times on here...

awww well we miss you posting

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by Kyle

Basically you have to not expect a reply. I'm guilty myself sometimes of just going to a thread and posting without reading the other comments so basically I could be parroting what somebody else has said and they might think I'm quoting them and well, it's a mess.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Cherie

I think the knack is to say your piece and not expect a reply, I've noticed a lot of people join a thread and I can be guilty of this myself and not bother reading the previous posts so I could be repeating what you said, and you might be thinking she could have just quoted me or agreed with me, also take some comments with a pinch of salt, or a vat of wine (Fridays only )

This is my motto

[-Sue-]

Originally Posted by Cherie

I think the knack is to say your piece and not expect a reply, I've noticed a lot of people join a thread and I can be guilty of this myself and not bother reading the previous posts so I could be repeating what you said, and you might be thinking she could have just quoted me or agreed with me, also take some comments with a pinch of salt, or a vat of wine (Fridays only )

LOL nicely put and of course wine on fridays bonus

[Kyle]

Originally Posted by Cherie

I think the knack is to say your piece and not expect a reply, I've noticed a lot of people join a thread and I can be guilty of this myself and not bother reading the previous posts so I could be repeating what you said, and you might be thinking she could have just quoted me or agreed with me, also take some comments with a pinch of salt, or a vat of wine (Fridays only )

Originally Posted by Niamh.

This is my motto

LT I'll let you take this one...

[Shaun]

It's been nine years so almost certainly annoys me when ancient threads are bumped and i've a post from 2008 that's rather embarrassing.

On a generally personal theme I've become a lot less open on here for obvious reasons... Don't have as much interest in chat threads or whatever any more whereas I was probably one of the main users in 2010-13 but I still try to keep other stuff going so I don't feel too guilty... I'm not sure. I don't quite get the humour on here sometimes.

But I think I've become a bit more stubborn and less of a pushover since I joined.

[Livia]

No... I was fabulous then and I'm fabulous now.

Although I didn't like Shaun at the start... that changed though x