[Kyle]

Originally Posted by -Sue-

LOL I changed my name due to being bullied/teased/missunderstood..

I remember when I first came to TIBB met people I thought were 'ok' only to find out they were 'insane' and talk outta their arse... so now I keep myself to myself I do know it can be very it's not 'what you know' but 'who you know' at times on here...

I love this, this should be in the official welcome pack when you sign up to the forum.

Sorry to hear about your experience, for the record I think sometimes harmless teasing and playfulness can come across to some people as being aggressive and bullying because really there's no context a lot of the time. We don't see people's faces so we don't have a lot to go on when deciding how to take things. Hopefully that's what really happened to you and nothing malicious even though that doesn't surprise me.

[-Sue-]

Originally Posted by Kyle

I love this, this should be in the official welcome pack when you sign up to the forum.

Sorry to hear about your experience, for the record I think sometimes harmless teasing and playfulness can come across to some people as being aggressive and bullying because really there's no context a lot of the time. We don't see people's faces so we don't have a lot to go on when deciding how to take things. Hopefully that's what really happened to you and nothing malicious even though that doesn't surprise me.

Ty for your reply It's all good honest I just need to find my place to fit it.. other than just BB

It can be a tough crowd on here but sometimes I like that too makes it something to discuss/challenge without breaking rules I am sure if I spent more time on here people would get to know me more and vice versa it's just finding that place to 'fit in' other than me talking the legs off a donkey hoping someone will reply

[Cherry Christmas]

Originally Posted by -Sue-

Ty for your reply It's all good honest I just need to find my place to fit it.. other than just BB

It can be a tough crowd on here but sometimes I like that too makes it something to discuss/challenge without breaking rules I am sure if I spent more time on here people would get to know me more and vice versa it's just finding that place to 'fit in' other than me talking the legs off a donkey hoping someone will reply

I think the knack is to say your piece and not expect a reply, I've noticed a lot of people join a thread and I can be guilty of this myself and not bother reading the previous posts so I could be repeating what you said, and you might be thinking she could have just quoted me or agreed with me, also take some comments with a pinch of salt, or a vat of wine (Fridays only )

[ChristmasNeeve]

Originally Posted by Cherie

I think the knack is to say your piece and not expect a reply, I've noticed a lot of people join a thread and I can be guilty of this myself and not bother reading the previous posts so I could be repeating what you said, and you might be thinking she could have just quoted me or agreed with me, also take some comments with a pinch of salt, or a vat of wine (Fridays only )

This is my motto

[Kyle]

Originally Posted by Cherie

I think the knack is to say your piece and not expect a reply, I've noticed a lot of people join a thread and I can be guilty of this myself and not bother reading the previous posts so I could be repeating what you said, and you might be thinking she could have just quoted me or agreed with me, also take some comments with a pinch of salt, or a vat of wine (Fridays only )

Originally Posted by Niamh.

This is my motto

LT I'll let you take this one...

[-Sue-]

Originally Posted by Cherie

I think the knack is to say your piece and not expect a reply, I've noticed a lot of people join a thread and I can be guilty of this myself and not bother reading the previous posts so I could be repeating what you said, and you might be thinking she could have just quoted me or agreed with me, also take some comments with a pinch of salt, or a vat of wine (Fridays only )

LOL nicely put and of course wine on fridays bonus