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Originally Posted by Adam.
I just found out over half hour ago that my Grandad has died and i literally dont know what i am meant to do.
We have known he has been on borrowed time since he was dignosed with alzheimer's 8 years ago and we were told at xmas that he had days to live but he managed to defy odds and last 2 months longer.
I have a range of emotion that i am going through and i seriously have no clue what to do as this is the 1st time i have lost close family.
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..there is no clue for any of us with grief and losing someone so close to us..just allow yourself to feel what you need to feel if and when you need to feel it...for some of us, what we need is to just try our best to focus our thoughts on 'normality' and distract and for others, there is a need to let emotions just flow...there is no right way or wrong way, grief is our own way....
...(I'm sure also that you needed to focus a little of your thoughts on a SD discussion there and there are no more understanding and caring hands than Marsh to find yourself in, so hopefully that helped also...

..)..I'm so very sorry for yours and your family's loss, a great grandparent is something that is never lost though...