[Northern Monkey]

It’s an easy mistake to make.Anyone can tell she is not a woman.Nobody would be fooled by it.You Dont automatically think woman when you see her.

[Gusto Brunt]

Originally Posted by Northern Monkey

It’s an easy mistake to make.Anyone can tell she is not a woman.Nobody would be fooled by it.You Dont automatically think woman when you see her.

She still has some man traits, like she was very aggressive changing the wheel on the car...

[rusticgal]

Tbh...her transition has been 40% of the conversation since they have been there...its forced them to think of her as a man...the last thing you want to do is call her a 'he' and the more you have that in your head the more you are likely to do it.
I remember going on holiday with my nephew and his new girlfriend...and a member of the family kept calling the new girlfriend the ex's name and after a while it upset her. I was so conscious of it...I went and did it myself...and I felt awful.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by rusticgal

Tbh...her transition has been 40% of the conversation since they have been there...its forced them to think of her as a man...the last thing you want to do is call her a 'he' and the more you have that in your head the more you are likely to do it.
I remember going on holiday with my nephew and his new girlfriend...and a member of the family kept calling the new girlfriend the ex's name and after a while it upset her. I was so conscious of it...I went and did it myself...and I felt awful.

Yeah, good example/comparison Rusticgal