[Christmas Dynasnow]

Originally Posted by Withano

Can I just say real quick that this whole ‘well you dont contribute to it, so what would you know’ thing a few of you have going on is bollocks

I barely ever post in the private forum, or the music forum, but I have a good understanding of the types of conversation that go on there, and the type of tone they have.

Not being part of the problem doesnt make you unqualified to discuss it

that is nonsense as both those forums are self explanatory and have zero to do with the real life topics on SD such as politics, abortion, rape etc

the point stands and unless people participate and make threads i cant see how an opinion, other than one of prejudice, be properly formed

join in and then form a view

otherwise, stay in your lane

[Withano]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

that is nonsense as both those forums are self explanatory and have zero to do with the real life topics on SD such as politics, abortion, rape etc

the point stands and unless people participate and make threads i cant see how an opinion, other than one of prejudice, be properly formed

join in and then form a view

otherwise, stay in your lane

The thread topic is ‘do you want to see the subforum axed’, you, Kaz, and Livia all decided that when it comes to this topic, only the ones who participate may form an opinion. Bollocks.

I’d argue its the opposite of this if anything, if people are actively avoiding the subforum for any reason, their perspective is just as relevant as yours. If not, more so.

(Obviously its not gonna be axed, its a discussion on a hypothetical, get off your high horse! You dont own imaginary scenarios).

[Cherry Christmas]

Originally Posted by Withano

The thread topic is ‘do you want to see the subforum axed’, you, Kaz, and Livia all decided that when it comes to this topic, only the ones who participate may form an opinion. Bollocks.

I’d argue its the opposite of this if anything, if people are actively avoiding the subforum for any reason, their perspective is just as relevant as yours. If not, more so.

(Obviously its not gonna be axed, its a discussion on a hypothetical, get off your high horse! You dont own imaginary scenarios).

Seriously though a lot of this I'm afraid to post my opinions in SD as it is too intimidating is utter claptrap! Arista is lovely

[Christmas Dynasnow]

Originally Posted by Withano

The thread topic is ‘do you want to see the subforum axed’, you, Kaz, and Livia all decided that when it comes to this topic, only the ones who participate may form an opinion. Bollocks.

I’d argue its the opposite of this if anything, if people are actively avoiding the subforum for any reason, their perspective is just as relevant as yours. If not, more so.

(Obviously its not gonna be axed, its a discussion on a hypothetical, get off your high horse! You dont own imaginary scenarios).

My advice stays, get involved and form an opinion, if not ignore.

I dont play any of the "games" on this site and frankly if they all stopped i could care less, but i know people like them and i know sometimes they cause drama


but I would never slate them or call for them to be axed.

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by Withano

The thread topic is ‘do you want to see the subforum axed’, you, Kaz, and Livia all decided that when it comes to this topic, only the ones who participate may form an opinion. Bollocks.

I’d argue its the opposite of this if anything, if people are actively avoiding the subforum for any reason, their perspective is just as relevant as yours. If not, more so.

(Obviously its not gonna be axed, its a discussion on a hypothetical, get off your high horse! You dont own imaginary scenarios).

Also that is a load of bollox ,NO one said that,I know I said those calling for a cull don't post in it,and some of them don't,NO ONE said only ones who participate can have an opinion,so stop trying to make out we are causing trouble.

[Withano]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

Also that is a load of bollox ,NO one said that,I know I said those calling for a cull don't post in it,and some of them don't,NO ONE said only ones who participate can have an opinion,so stop trying to make out we are causing trouble.

Well, what was your point then? Why mention it. Of course nobody who posts in it regularly are gonna want it culled.. so what was the point in even saying the obvious if it wasnt to make a point?

Also

sometimes it's nice to have some adult talk,and threads with long posts and substance

bull**** Kaz! Your intention was clear!

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by Withano

Well, what was your point then? Why mention it. Of course nobody who posts in it regularly are gonna want it culled.. so what was the point in even saying the obvious if it wasnt to make a point?

Simply ,Why would it bother some people who don'treally use it so much they want it axed ? as Cherie said the chat threads have been the cause of bother etc lots of times,,but some of us don't go in there as it doesn't interest us and serious debates would be ok if people could take a differing opinion and be civil in their responses,even when it gets heated most adults can sort it out, I think some people just love the drama and keep trying to wind people up.

[Withano]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

Simply ,Why would it bother some people who don'treally use it so much they want it axed ? as Cherie said the chat threads have been the cause of bother etc lots of times,,but some of us don't go in there as it doesn't interest us and serious debates would be ok if people could take a differing opinion and be civil in their responses,even when it gets heated most adults can sort it out, I think some people just love the drama and keep trying to wind people up.

..well maybe ask people why it bothers them instead of just reiterating that it shouldnt?

Christ, for a few ‘serious debaters’ you guys dont seem to want much of a 2-sided debate.

[Christmas Dynasnow]

Originally Posted by Withano

..well maybe ask people why it bothers them instead of just reiterating that it shouldnt?

Christ, for a few ‘serious debaters’ you guys dont seem to want much of a 2-sided debate.

stop baiting or this thread will end up being closed as well

[Parmy]

Originally Posted by Withano

..well maybe ask people why it bothers them instead of just reiterating that it shouldnt?

Christ, for a few ‘serious debaters’ you guys dont seem to want much of a 2-sided debate.

Some would probably be infracted for debating in the suggestions forum.

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by Withano

..well maybe ask people why it bothers them instead of just reiterating that it shouldnt?

Christ, for a few ‘serious debaters’ you guys dont seem to want much of a 2-sided debate.

I did ask,hence the use of the word WHY,Christ you are not getting annoyed are you,lets debate like adults.

[Brillopad]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

Simply ,Why would it bother some people who don'treally use it so much they want it axed ? as Cherie said the chat threads have been the cause of bother etc lots of times,,but some of us don't go in there as it doesn't interest us and serious debates would be ok if people could take a differing opinion and be civil in their responses,even when it gets heated most adults can sort it out, I think some people just love the drama and keep trying to wind people up.

Exactly!