[smeagol]

n honour of benedick speech i might have alittle tank in his honour lol now where's that sara photo.........

[sampvt]

Originally Posted by karezza

Ejaculation is death.

Ive died loads of times since leaving Killyleagh and moving to leeds. A amn after my own heart. Or in our speak, he is a freeki eejit. lol.

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by MaratSafinForever

You seem to be as intelligent as Caroline herself. You seem to be forgetting that he's being watched by the public, I'm sure that he's aware that he's justifying his own actions not only to the house but to the viewers and there's nothing wrong with that.

There was absolutely nothing wrong with what he did. It took him the better part of a minute to explain himself, that's hardly "going on" and nobody told him to stop. If they were too immature to sit and listen to the man justify himself AFTER THEY COMPLAINED (thus virtually requesting as much from him) then they could have simply left the room.

What's with the insults? Why are you making it so personal? Have some respect.

[sampvt]

Originally Posted by mizzy25

hes a wanker

He isnt a wanker, he is a tosser...

[Patrick]

The man is a hero.

[GypsyGoth]

Caroline was entitled to laugh at the wanker.

[rusticgal]

Originally Posted by GypsyGoth

Caroline was entitled to laugh at the wanker.

He deserved to be laughed at...he made himself look like a complete prick. Who does he think he is.....he was preaching and he is so up himself and completely self absorbed.

[fruit_cake]

comedy gold

[saz2011]

he was right in what he said but his words were wasted on such a young immature crowd

[Legend killer]

Good stuff going to wack one out now to celebrate

[Carniala]

Originally Posted by rusticgal

He deserved to be laughed at...he made himself look like a complete prick. Who does he think he is.....he was preaching and he is so up himself and completely self absorbed.

Why is it so laughable? He was honest and to the point conversation, If you are not comfortable in your own body, and think it is not correct to have a discussion about sex or masturbation, well, I guess life is going to be long and boring for you.

The fact Caroline Laughed about it only show her immaturity or the fact her parents have their head in the sand, and she will have to do the entire sex experience on her own or not at all it seams.

My niece and nephew knows how babies are made and most of everything about sex, and yet they are not sexually active, but they understand that it is natural and normal, when society insist on making something taboo, it only makes things worst.

Another good topic Benedict should talk to them about is Alcohol consumption, Scott already has a problem if he does not understand that what Benedict said to him was for his own good, but judging how the British view alcohol, he has a huge task in front of him! My parents taught me how to enjoy wine and I never had the need to be drunk to have fun. but I still know how to have a great evening and remember it the next day!

[MaratSafinForever]

Originally Posted by Doogle

Was there a reason you insulted my intelligence? I fail to see why you need to bring that up when having a discussion about Benedict's actions. Totally uncalled for.

Yes, I am fully aware that he's being watched. And yes, it was his decision to do so and the others are a bit silly for constantly discussing sex and then finding that weird, but regardless I personally think his little speech in the diary room seemed a bit pointless. I understand he is a porn "performer" and wishes people in the country were better educated on the subject but to me the whole thing felt a bit too exaggerated.

However, that could simply be down to the fact they chose to play inappropriate music while he was talking.

If you think that was a speech, then it speaks volumes in regards to your level of attention span. That was no speech, it was merely his opinion and statement of belief in a short paragraph.

[MaratSafinForever]

Originally Posted by 08marsh

What's with the insults? Why are you making it so personal? Have some respect.

Nice to know that you think being compared to Caroline in regards to intelligence is an insult. Funny.

[Doogle]

Originally Posted by MaratSafinForever

If you think that was a speech, then it speaks volumes in regards to your level of attention span. That was no speech, it was merely his opinion and statement of belief in a short paragraph.

Again, why are you bring up things about me personally? You could've just said that without putting that in. I'm unsure why you feel the need to do so, it makes you look like you're trying to look above me or smarter than me, but just to remind you we are all equal.

I was not the first to refer to it as a speech, but the way BB built it up made it seem that way. My point was it still felt like a big deal over nothing.

[Mrluvaluva]

Originally Posted by MaratSafinForever

Nice to know that you think being compared to Caroline in regards to intelligence is an insult. Funny.

So your intention was not to make it sound condescending? I see..

[MaratSafinForever]

Originally Posted by Doogle

Again, why are you bring up things about me personally? You could've just said that without putting that in. I'm unsure why you feel the need to do so, it makes you look like you're trying to look above me or smarter than me, but just to remind you we are all equal.

I was not the first to refer to it as a speech, but the way BB built it up made it seem that way. My point was it still felt like a big deal over nothing.

What do you expect me to say? I've already explained to you why there was a deal made out of nothing. It was because the rest of the housemates were complaining, so Benedict decided to justify his actions to the main person who was complaining in a dignified way. What do you fail to understand? If Caroline is allowed to voice her opinion, so is he.

Originally Posted by Mrluvaluva

So your intention was not to make it sound condescending? I see..

No, it was indeed

[kistar]

Originally Posted by MaratSafinForever

You seem to be as intelligent as Caroline herself. You seem to be forgetting that he's being watched by the public, I'm sure that he's aware that he's justifying his own actions not only to the house but to the viewers and there's nothing wrong with that.

There was absolutely nothing wrong with what he did. It took him the better part of a minute to explain himself, that's hardly "going on" and nobody told him to stop. If they were too immature to sit and listen to the man justify himself AFTER THEY COMPLAINED (thus virtually requesting as much from him) then they could have simply left the room.

He left the room after making Caroline very uncomfortable and then returned to continue his tyrade of nonsense so yes he did go on and on and Caroline had little choice but to listen.

Masturbation isnt something every one needs to be able to talk about , you just need to know its ok to do if you want to, and there is a big difference.

Working in porn must at some level de sensitise you to sex and what it may represent to other people , it becomes the norm well not to every one it isnt and that should be accepted too.

He is in my opinion a complete and utter wanker in every sense of the word.

[Doogle]

Originally Posted by MaratSafinForever

What do you expect me to say? I've already explained to you why there was a deal made out of nothing. It was because the rest of the housemates were complaining, so Benedict decided to justify his actions to the main person who was complaining in a dignified way. What do you fail to understand? If Caroline is allowed to voice her opinion, so is he.

I expect you to reply to me without trying to be patronising or rude. I understand why he did it, all my original point was saying was that I just felt it was a bit exaggerated.

[MaratSafinForever]

Originally Posted by kistar

He left the room after making Caroline very uncomfortable and then returned to continue his tyrade of nonsense so yes he did go on and on and Caroline had little choice but to listen.

Masturbation isnt something every one needs to be able to talk about , you just need to know its ok to do if you want to, and there is a big difference.

Working in porn must at some level de sensitise you to sex and what it may represent to other people , it becomes the norm well not to every one it isnt and that should be accepted too.

He is in my opinion a complete and utter wanker in every sense of the word.

http://www.thisisbigbrother.com/foru...5&postcount=13

Originally Posted by Doogle

I expect you to reply to me without trying to be patronising or rude. I understand why he did it, all my original point was saying was that I just felt it was a bit exaggerated.

There was no exaggeration, it took him a minute to explain himself, longer than necessary due to the immaturity a certain person. I have no idea why you don't understand that. Well, I do, but I'll leave it at that

[MrWong]

Originally Posted by kistar

He left the room after making Caroline very uncomfortable and then returned to continue his tyrade of nonsense so yes he did go on and on and Caroline had little choice but to listen.

Masturbation isnt something every one needs to be able to talk about , you just need to know its ok to do if you want to, and there is a big difference.

Working in porn must at some level de sensitise you to sex and what it may represent to other people , it becomes the norm well not to every one it isnt and that should be accepted too.

He is in my opinion a complete and utter wanker in every sense of the word.

Not true. He gave her a choice.

[Doogle]

Originally Posted by MaratSafinForever

There was no exaggeration, it took him a minute to explain himself, longer than necessary due to the immaturity a certain person. I have no idea why you don't understand that. Well, I do, but I'll leave it at that

You have fun with that "thinking you're superior" attitude you have going on, it'll get you far

[armand.kay]

Originally Posted by reece(:

Just imagine if Nikki was in the house at the revelation

If her reaction to Dawns BO is anything to go by, I think she would of imploded

[rusticgal]

Originally Posted by Carniala

Why is it so laughable? He was honest and to the point conversation, If you are not comfortable in your own body, and think it is not correct to have a discussion about sex or masturbation, well, I guess life is going to be long and boring for you.

The fact Caroline Laughed about it only show her immaturity or the fact her parents have their head in the sand, and she will have to do the entire sex experience on her own or not at all it seams.

My niece and nephew knows how babies are made and most of everything about sex, and yet they are not sexually active, but they understand that it is natural and normal, when society insist on making something taboo, it only makes things worst.

Another good topic Benedict should talk to them about is Alcohol consumption, Scott already has a problem if he does not understand that what Benedict said to him was for his own good, but judging how the British view alcohol, he has a huge task in front of him! My parents taught me how to enjoy wine and I never had the need to be drunk to have fun. but I still know how to have a great evening and remember it the next day!

Oh god....lets spend the next few weeks being lectured by Benedict... He is a very irritating patronising person. Carolines giggles...however immature clearly showed her being uncomfortable with the situation. In fact Benedict made himself look a prat because trying to be 'mature' he didnt handle it well. He just decided to preach. Just because he finds it natural does not make it right for him to be so public about it and tell someone they shouldnt be embarrased about it.....imo he was being disrespectful especially doing it in the shower that is used by all. Some people feel that certain things should remain 'private' and he should respect that instead of telling them they are wrong.

[armand.kay]

It was a legendary speech. I was moved

[InOne]

Maybe if he didn't come across as such a self-righteous prick then people would take him more seriously. He's on BB for god sake.