[GlitterUK]

While Ali continues to walk away the issue will never be resolved. He keeps trying with her goodness knows why but it has zero effect because Ali doesn't want to move forward.
Khaled is a real credit to his family, he is calm, he is so tolerant and he is a really nice guy. If being fake and too nice is all she has then the game is already over. Khaled is a true gent and there isn't that many around on tv shows like this.

He is always willing to give that olive branch and put things to bed but she is so stubborn.

[GoldHeart]

Originally Posted by GlitterUK

While Ali continues to walk away the issue will never be resolved. He keeps trying with her goodness knows why but it has zero effect because Ali doesn't want to move forward.
Khaled is a real credit to his family, he is calm, he is so tolerant and he is a really nice guy. If being fake and too nice is all she has then the game is already over. Khaled is a true gent and there isn't that many around on tv shows like this.

He is always willing to give that olive branch and put things to bed but she is so stubborn.

Marcello even told her that Khaled has said nothing bad about her ,and all she can do is still moan about how Khaled is " trying to look good" . She has such a unhealthy hatred for Khaled.

She can't take the fact that Khaled is decent and nice . Whilst she continues to be a miserable bitter person full of deep rooted
issues. If he had been slagging her off and acting loud and boisterous ,she would still hate it . So once again she can't stand Khaled simply just existing .

She's the only one going on about camera's and what the outside world will think . Why is she on BB .

[ThomasC]

Originally Posted by GlitterUK

While Ali continues to walk away the issue will never be resolved. He keeps trying with her goodness knows why but it has zero effect because Ali doesn't want to move forward.
Khaled is a real credit to his family, he is calm, he is so tolerant and he is a really nice guy. If being fake and too nice is all she has then the game is already over. Khaled is a true gent and there isn't that many around on tv shows like this.

He is always willing to give that olive branch and put things to bed but she is so stubborn.

What is wrong with not wanting to resolve something?

He's so willing to give olive branches he brings something up that was put to bed even though he was advised to wait until the next day

[FromBB8]

Originally Posted by ThomasC

What is wrong with not wanting to resolve something?

He's so willing to give olive branches he brings something up that was put to bed even though he was advised to wait until the next day

I feel something was left out of the edit there. On the live feed, most of the house supported Khaled over Ali over the dispute. Why was that? Why did he approach her that evening rather than wait until the next morning? From the edit, the only thing is he was wound up slightly by the group conversation but even that doesn't quite add up. There appears to be a lack context.

It is a two way street. Khaled's timing and phrasing was off, but so was Ali's reaction.

[Garfie]

Originally Posted by FromBB8

I feel something was left out of the edit there. On the live feed, most of the house supported Khaled over Ali over the dispute. Why was that? Why did he approach her that evening rather than wait until the next morning? From the edit, the only thing is he was wound up slightly by the group conversation but even that doesn't quite add up. There appears to be a lack context.

It is a two way street. Khaled's timing and phrasing was off, but so was Ali's reaction.

I don’t feel his timing needs to be questioned. Ali didn’t waste any time in launching into him directly after he made his killer nomination last week, and didn’t show any consideration for the fact that the timing might be wrong for him. How can the same thing be fair for one and not the other?

I have an understanding of Ali, and empathy for her Autistic tendencies. However, alongside that goes the reality that all humans are flawed, all people can get things wrong and those on the Spectrum are not immune to that. And, just like any other person in this world, they shouldn’t be defended to the hilt when they do make mistakes, but encouraged instead to recognise errors in judgement and behaviour, so that they are given the opportunity to reassess and change if necessary.

Excusing or defending all they do, no matter what the impact, does them a disservice and is basically just enabling - it doesn’t show credit or respect for the intelligence and ability they have to reconsider, adjust, adapt or learn where necessary.

[FromBB8]

Originally Posted by Garfie

I don’t feel his timing needs to be questioned. Ali didn’t waste any time in launching into him directly after he made his killer nomination last week, and didn’t show any consideration for the fact that the timing might be wrong for him. How can the same thing be fair for one and not the other?

I have an understanding of Ali, and empathy for her Autistic tendencies. However, alongside that goes the reality that all humans are flawed, all people can get things wrong and those on the Spectrum are not immune to that. And, just like any other person in this world, they shouldn’t be defended to the hilt when they do make mistakes, but encouraged instead to recognise errors in judgement and behaviour, so that they are given the opportunity to reassess and change if necessary.

Excusing or defending all they do, no matter what the impact, does them a disservice and is basically just enabling - it doesn’t show credit or respect for the intelligence and ability they have to reconsider, adjust, adapt or learn where necessary.

Though it could be argued that, as Khaled knew how difficult it was to be confronted straight after making the HoH nomination, he'd give some time to Ali for doing the same thing. He even said he would so I'm not sure why he didn't follow that through.

[vesavius]

Originally Posted by Garfie

I don’t feel his timing needs to be questioned. Ali didn’t waste any time in launching into him directly after he made his killer nomination last week, and didn’t show any consideration for the fact that the timing might be wrong for him. How can the same thing be fair for one and not the other?

Exactly.

She demands empathy, understanding and respect of others but gives zero in return.

[jet]

Originally Posted by Garfie

I don’t feel his timing needs to be questioned. Ali didn’t waste any time in launching into him directly after he made his killer nomination last week, and didn’t show any consideration for the fact that the timing might be wrong for him. How can the same thing be fair for one and not the other?

I have an understanding of Ali, and empathy for her Autistic tendencies. However, alongside that goes the reality that all humans are flawed, all people can get things wrong and those on the Spectrum are not immune to that. And, just like any other person in this world, they shouldn’t be defended to the hilt when they do make mistakes, but encouraged instead to recognise errors in judgement and behaviour, so that they are given the opportunity to reassess and change if necessary.

Excusing or defending all they do, no matter what the impact, does them a disservice and is basically just enabling - it doesn’t show credit or respect for the intelligence and ability they have to reconsider, adjust, adapt or learn where necessary.

Wonderful post

[Vanessa]

I love the way Khaled always stays calm.

[Liam-]

It’s because he’s fake as a £30 note and she deals with reality and fact

[GlitterUK]

He is proactive she is reactive.

[arista]

[GoldHeart]

Originally Posted by arista

[vesavius]

Originally Posted by arista

Wow, it's almost like the position is super stressful and emotionally hard. It's a shame that she didn't use it as a learning moment to understand how Khaled felt and the impact of her behaviour on him.

[GlitterUK]

I think they have both taken up so much of the show it would be interesting to see what happens when they both do leave because I think their fans will cancel out each other.

[bots]

Some people are just not meant to share living accommodation with each other. In fact, i would actually say there are very few that people would actually choose. So why should everyone try and resolve conflict, it is not the natural order of things. People don't get on