[Josy]

Originally Posted by kisywisy

faye annoys the life out of me, but i do think that she was hurt by what he said. i would've been hurt and self concious if my other half said it.

did you notice how offended aaron was when she said the same sort of thing to him about the shirt?? that was a 'now you know how it feels' comment

I see it as the complete opposite, Faye said that to him on purpose and he wasnt bothered one bit about it imho.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by kisywisy

faye annoys the life out of me, but i do think that she was hurt by what he said. i would've been hurt and self concious if my other half said it.

did you notice how offended aaron was when she said the same sort of thing to him about the shirt?? that was a 'now you know how it feels' comment

He asked her if she was wearing that because she'd gotten ready so early, he didn't say it in a nasty way at all

[vesavius]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

He asked her if she was wearing that because she'd gotten ready so early, he didn't say it in a nasty way at all

Nonsense.

He was basically saying 'is that the best you can do?', criticising in an indirect and underhand way.

Passive aggressive control tactics.

Faye overreacted and ran with it, but that dosen't remove his intention.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by vesavius

Nonsense.

He was basically saying 'is that the best you can do?', criticising in an indirect and underhand way.

Passive aggressive control tactics.

Faye overreacted and ran with it, but that dosen't remove his intention.

I think you're wrong.

[vesavius]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

I think you're wrong.

Well, that's the basis of a discussion forum I guess

[kisywisy]

i disagree. that little comment made me think he could be quite a controling man

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by kisywisy

i disagree. that little comment made me think he could be quite a controling man

And her accusing him of being angry and all red in the face when he quite clearly wasn't? That tells me that she likes to dream up things that aren't there

[kisywisy]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

And her accusing him of being angry and all red in the face when he quite clearly wasn't? That tells me that she likes to dream up things that aren't there

oh he WAS angry!!

not hopping mad but he was angry. maybe the second time i've seen him that angry

i'm not a fan of faye and she did go over the top but it was a snide comment

[vesavius]

Originally Posted by kisywisy

oh he WAS angry!!

not hopping mad but he was angry. maybe the second time i've seen him that angry

i'm not a fan of faye and she did go over the top but it was a snide comment

I agree 100% with you here Kisy.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by kisywisy

oh he WAS angry!!

not hopping mad but he was angry. maybe the second time i've seen him that angry

i'm not a fan of faye and she did go over the top but it was a snide comment

No he wasn't. he asked her if that was what she was wearing because it was really early. She then obviously told people that he'd said he didn't like what she was wearing which was completely untrue as that's the version Jay was telling Louise.

[RodHull]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

Yes it reminded me of that too.

Also a bit like her telling him not to speak to her...and then moaning to the others that hes ignoring her.

Yeah I was amazed nobody else picked up on that, she actually said not to speak to her then moaned he ignored her to every other HM who would listen.

Originally Posted by Marmalite

and suddenly the bunny boiler trip switch went off and the next thing you know she's storming off saying she's going to change.

Thats fayes problem, shes clearly had really bad relationships before and just assumes the worst of every little thing said to her. It happens all the time, he makes little jokes, and she almost deliberately misunderstands them to be insults.

Originally Posted by kisywisy

i disagree. that little comment made me think he could be quite a controling man

Oh cmon thats ridiculous. It wasnt like he said 'Oh god you arent wearing that are you??' he just asked if that was what she was wearing, end of story. She clearly felt uncomfortable in it anyway and self conscious and just used his comment as an excuse to get changed and also have a pop at him.

Then compounded the situation by totally misquoting him to Alex and making the whole thing sound 100s time worse than it was. She does this alot, which means shes either a total liar or just has some serious issues and genuinely believes he says those things. She has misquoted him to her advantage so many times its untrue, he has never done this to her, he has never painted her in a deliberately bad light to other HMs, she cant wait to do it.

Originally Posted by kisywisy

oh he WAS angry!!

not hopping mad but he was angry. maybe the second time i've seen him that angry

i'm not a fan of faye and she did go over the top but it was a snide comment

With good reason, she went completely off on one then went and told Alex a pack of lies about him to make him seem awful, then when he pulled her up she pulled the old 'I was only Joking' bullcrap, sorry it was bang out of order and would annoy anyone. I would have been much angrier than him and I am a very relaxed guy. I mean honestly momemts later and the house was discussing how awful he was for insulting what she was wearing, so her hideous lies had the desired effect - everyone pitying her, she loves playing the victim.

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

And her accusing him of being angry and all red in the face when he quite clearly wasn't? That tells me that she likes to dream up things that aren't there

Oh I think it was quite clear that he was angry. Or maybe frustrated is the correct word.

I think in that one moment it clicked for him, the reason he comes off as the bad one in the relationship constantly is because of things like this. Her making things into something they are not. It was ridiculous how when called up on her bullsh**t she tried to play the 'I was joking' card

[vesavius]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

Or maybe frustrated is the correct word.

No, it is definitely 'angry'.

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by vesavius

No, it is definitely 'angry'.

It is 'definitely' nothing, unless you have mind reading abilities.

[exoticrosebud]

cant even remember what she was bloody wearing now ! lol...

[Niamh.]

Hope you don't mind me stealing your post Rod

[RodHull]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Hope you don't mind me stealing your post Rod

Not at all, glad to be of service

[vikram84]

People, for example who justify her reaction to him asking if she was wearing what she had on to the party are just as nuts as she is!!! I really like Faye when she's normal, but if people defending her think that, constantly questioning compliments until you hear them over and over (sad), twisting things your partner says to you to all your housemate(no,no), flipping out at your partner for something trivial then complain he is in a mood for no reason(duh), or tell them not to talk to you again then tell your housemates that he's ignoring you(huh?), and on and on, if you think this is normal you are just as insecure and mess up as her. . .

JJJS-I'm sure you are Jem, your mentality is just like theirs!!!!!!

I'm dont think Aaron is innocent, but the majority of the fights Faye has blown them waaaaaay out of proportion, I'm just sad at how many people believe this is how a woman should act in a relationship, and I'm a bloody woman!!!!!!

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[flamingGalah!]

Originally Posted by kisywisy

i disagree. that little comment made me think he could be quite a controling man

Funny, it made me think Faye is a few sandwiches short & should stop twisting everything Aaron says...

Originally Posted by vesavius

Nonsense.

He was basically saying 'is that the best you can do?', criticising in an indirect and underhand way.

Passive aggressive control tactics.

Faye overreacted and ran with it, but that dosen't remove his intention.

No, what you have written is nonsense!

He said no such thing! If Faye is so bloody highly strung & twists every thing he says it hardly Aaron's fault! He did not say it in a sarcastic manner at all & wasn't criticising her!! He simply asked if she was wearing what she was wearing later. What the hell is wrong with that?

Passive aggressive my ass. The stuff you spout is hilarious...

[vesavius]

Originally Posted by flamingGalah!

No, what you have written is nonsense!

He said no such thing! If Faye is so bloody highly strung & twists every thing he says it hardly Aaron's fault! He did not say it in a sarcastic manner at all & wasn't criticising her!! He simply asked if she was wearing what she was wearing later. What the hell is wrong with that?

Passive aggressive my ass. The stuff you spout is hilarious...

1. I didn't say he said it in a 'sarcastic' manner. Your missing the point of what I am saying if you think that's what I am stating and you haven't understood the behaviour pattern I am describing and you don't get how Aaron applies it.

2. Based on you obviously missing the point of what I am saying, and your unnecessarily hostile tone, I will disregard your PoV on this one if thats ok?

Thanks for your input though!

[flamingGalah!]

Originally Posted by vesavius

1. I didn't say he said it in a 'sarcastic' manner. Your missing the point of what I am saying if you think that's what I am stating and you haven't understood the behaviour pattern I am describing and you don't get how Aaron applies it.

2. Based on you obviously missing the point of what I am saying, and your unnecessarily hostile tone, I will disregard your PoV on this one if thats ok?

Thanks for your input though!

Erm you implied it was said in a sarcastic manner & his intention was to put her down & make her feel like sh*t... I don't think you even understand what point you are trying to make...

Based on your rather arrogant reply & your hostile tone I will once again completely ignore your input as it is like a broken record as far as Aaron is concerned...

But yes, thank you so much for your input & once again trying to paint Aaron in a bad light, better luck next time *HUGS*

[vesavius]

Originally Posted by flamingGalah!

Erm you implied it was said in a sarcastic manner...

ahhhh 'implied'... I see.

Code for 'he didn't say but Flaming Galah wanted him to be saying'.

OK!

[RodHull]

Originally Posted by vikram84

People, for example who justify her reaction to him asking if she was wearing what she had on to the party are just as nuts as she is!!! I really like Faye when she's normal, but if people defending her think that, constantly questioning compliments until you hear them over and over (sad), twisting things your partner says to you to all your housemate(no,no), flipping out at your partner for something trivial then complain he is in a mood for no reason(duh), or tell them not to talk to you again then tell your housemates that he's ignoring you(huh?), and on and on, if you think this is normal you are just as insecure and mess up as her. . .

JJJS-I'm sure you are Jem, your mentality is just like theirs!!!!!!

I'm dont think Aaron is innocent, but the majority of the fights Faye has blown them waaaaaay out of proportion, I'm just sad at how many people believe this is how a woman should act in a relationship, and I'm a bloody woman!!!!!!

Quoted for truth.

The way she fishes for compliments sometimes is toe curlingly bad. Sometimes she even cops the ump if he doesnt say the exact right type of compliment. I mean I sympathise with her for her hideous sister and mother (no wonder shes insecure) but honestly she needs genuine counselling before entering any relationship imho

[Livia]

Fay - or whatever her real name is today - needs to grow up. So she's been hurt before - who hasn't? The girl is an idiot.

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Livia

Fay - or whatever her real name is today - needs to grow up. So she's been hurt before - who hasn't? The girl is an idiot.

Livia..if you disappear again, I'm going to think you're one of the housemates...you're not Faye are you?.........good to see you