[Redway]

Not an irritant or really an issue at-all but when it comes to cooking jollof rice, using aluminum foil to trap in the steam (when the want arises) is still the default. But parchment paper’s actually healthier, and as far as I can tell gives off the same results. I’d rather use parchment paper and (occasionally) uma leaves than foil, to be quite honest.

[Benjamin]

Originally Posted by Redway

Every time I choose to read your posts just reminds me of why I have you on my ignore-list. I obviously didn’t make a mistake. You, Benjamin (in all his pedantic foolery) and Alf really don’t do yourselves any favours in my book.

Not Redway yet again being condescending with his abrasive and conceited opinions. Makes a change…

[Zizu]

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[Redway]

Originally Posted by Zizu

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Your perplexity with social sub-text isn’t my problem. I really don’t understand you.

[Zizu]

Originally Posted by Redway

Your perplexity with social sub-text isn’t my problem. I really don’t understand you.

#1023 you quoted your own post yet I’m at fault for not understanding why


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[Redway]

Originally Posted by Zizu

#1023 you quoted your own post yet I’m at fault for not understanding why


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Because it’s obvious what i was doing to anyone with an ounce of social understanding. I know you have autism but your social cluelessness is infuriating at times. That’s why I don’t like to engage with you. Every time i choose to view your posts just confirms that putting you on my ignore-list was the right decision.

[Zizu]

Originally Posted by Redway

Because it’s obvious what i was doing to anyone with an ounce of social understanding. I know you have autism but your social cluelessness is infuriating at times. That’s why I don’t like to engage with you. Every time i choose to view your posts just confirms that putting you on my ignore-list was the right decision.

I still don’t know why you replied to yourself and even dissed yourself ?


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[Redway]

Places being under-staffed, and everything in the environment down to the kindly old fella/lady who wants a bit of a gab with the one person who is serving (and holding up the queue in the process), compounding on that. It’s not respectful to the time of the person behind the till/wherever and it’s not respectful to the time of customers, either. No-matter how patient some people might be, not everyone actually has the time to wait. Patient or not.

[Mystic Mock]

When people keep repeating the same question that they've asked five times prior on the same day.

[Zizu]

Does anyone else know why Redneck replied to himself and with a negativity comment ?


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[Redway]

Keep ranting to yourself in needless perplexity. I’m not viewing your posts. Boundary set, conversation over. You’re not wasting any more of my time with your cluelessness and ridiculous questions. Your social obliviousness (which is another little thing that irritates me) is not my problem.

[Redway]

Originally Posted by Zizu

Does anyone else know why Redneck replied to himself and with a negativity comment ?


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There you are again. Calling me a redneck and expecting immunity just-because you have autism. Turns out I was right to draw the line after-all. You know exactly what you’re doing, don’t you?

When are you going to stop using autism as a blanket-excuse and take some accountability? Or am I “misunderstanding” what you meant by redneck, or your point about people who rape young girls always being “bloody foreigners”? One minute you’re being xenophobic, the next you’re calling a total stranger white trash. And you expect me to just allow it because you’re autistic?

[Zizu]

Originally Posted by Redway

There you are again. Calling me a redneck and expecting immunity just-because you have autism. Turns out I was right to draw the line after-all. You know exactly what you’re doing, don’t you?

When are you going to stop using autism as a blanket-excuse and take some accountability? Or am I “misunderstanding” what you meant by redneck, or your point about people who rape young girls always being “bloody foreigners”? One minute you’re being xenophobic, the next you’re calling a total stranger white trash. And you expect me to just allow it because you’re autistic?

Are you crazy.. I couldn’t remember your name so guessed at Redneck ( I knew it was Red something)

It was also when I was irritated by your response .. #1030


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[Redway]

Originally Posted by Zizu

That was days ago when I was irritated by your response ..


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Doesn’t matter how long ago it was (in any case, it was, like, yesterday, not 1953). You said what you said, you know how unacceptable that remark is and I’m not excusing it because of your diagnosis or temporal context. You say things like this all the time. Tomorrow you’ll say similar and won’t have the excuse of time on your side.

[Zizu]

Originally Posted by Redway

Doesn’t matter how long ago it was. You said what you said, you know how unacceptable that remark is and I’m not excusing it because of your diagnosis or temporal context. You say things like this all the time. Tomorrow you’ll say similar and won’t have the excuse of time on your side.

See post above

I have no idea what Redneck refers other than it’s the name of a guy who appears on a discover program about aquariums .. he makes the tanks .. it’s an American thing


Surely you saw the link Redneck / Redway


Anyways if I was calling you a redneck I would have referred to you as ‘the redneck’ but I just said Redneck as your name

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[Kate!]

People misunderstanding Zizu.

[Redway]

Originally Posted by Kate!

People misunderstanding Zizu.

The issue I have with Zizu cuts across many corners and he knows he doesn’t help himself by the way he cuts in deliberately to express confusion with basic subtext, and he has some questionable views in-general that have nothing to do with his autism. He’s just not someone I gel with, and he knows that. He just chooses to persistently ignore that boundary, acting like it’s on everyone-else to accommodate deliberate behaviour and dodgy opinions just-because his condition affects him in certain ways.

I respect you, Kate, but I can’t apologise for not liking him. We just don’t gel, and not all of that is because of the way his ASD affects him. He’s not totally innocent in it all and I have to be firm on that. The way his neurodivergence affects him explains some things but not everything, because we’re all fundamentally people before our neurotype or preferred ways of communicating. Constantly forcing himself into conversations that have nothing to do with him and pretending not to understand basic sub-text as far as I’m concerned might as well be deliberate in his case, because he knows I have boundaries with him. He just ignores them, and that’s deliberate. It’s being wilfully provocative and expecting immunity from some basic accountability just-because he’s neurodivergent (which practically half the planet seems to be at this point). Naturally, I don’t want to lose friends over this but as far as Zizu’s concerned I just can’t be nice about this anymore.

Weaponising ambiguity to maintain a foothold in conversations that clearly don’t involve him, gaslighting people, objectifying women, ignoring boundaries over and over again, thinking he’s entitled to preferential communication-treatment tailored just for him, that’s … that’s manipulative, entitled, misogynistic. Not just quirky neurodivergence. I just think he’s a really toxic drain on this forum. WrongPlanet’s a better place for him, but even they would have to draw the line at misogyny, which Zizu is very-much guilty of, consistently. I really don’t think he’s as harmless or innocent as he makes out. Socially clueless, maybe not purposefully there per-se, but still toxic. Forcing himself into narratives that he knows he doesn’t have the wiring to understand, planting the spirit of confusion for no reason. If he has to be hounded a bit to get some sense into him and challenge his toxic mindset, it’s just something I’m going to step up to and get involved in. Like I said, I value our friendship more but the one thing I can’t do is just sit on the gut-instinct I have about this guy. I don’t think he’s a good person. At-all.

[Zizu]

Originally Posted by Redway

The issue I have with Zizu cuts across many corners and he knows he doesn’t help himself by the way he cuts in deliberately to express confusion with basic subtext, and he has some questionable views in-general that have nothing to do with his autism. He’s just not someone I gel with, and he knows that. He just chooses to ignore that boundary. I respect you, Kate, but I can’t apologise for not liking him. We just don’t gel, and not all of that is because of the way his ASD affects him. He’s not totally innocent in it all. I have to be firm on that.

It’s all good

I can’t stand liver and onions or fried mushrooms either


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[Kate!]

Originally Posted by Redway

The issue I have with Zizu cuts across many corners and he knows he doesn’t help himself by the way he cuts in deliberately to express confusion with basic subtext, and he has some questionable views in-general that have nothing to do with his autism. He’s just not someone I gel with, and he knows that. He just chooses to persistently ignore that boundary, acting like it’s on everyone-else to accommodate deliberate behaviour and dodgy opinions just-because his condition affects him in certain ways.

I respect you, Kate, but I can’t apologise for not liking him. We just don’t gel, and not all of that is because of the way his ASD affects him. He’s not totally innocent in it all and I have to be firm on that. The way his neurodivergence affects him explains some things but not everything, because we’re all fundamentally people before our neurotype or preferred ways of communicating. Constantly forcing himself into conversations that have nothing to do with him and pretending not to understand basic sub-text as far as I’m concerned might as well be deliberate in his case, because he knows I have boundaries with him. He just ignores them, and that’s deliberate. It’s being wilfully provocative and expecting immunity from some basic accountability just-because he’s neurodivergent (which practically half the planet seems to be at this point). Naturally, I don’t want to lose friends over this but as far as Zizu’s concerned I just can’t be nice about this anymore.

No that's fine love. You know I have a lot of time for you, you're a really good friend on here to me. Truly. I just don't think Zizu does it purposefully. I get it can be frustrating I do. It must be frustrating for Zizu too. Xx

[Zizu]

If anyone can explain this post please let me know by PM to avoid any more unpleasantness !

Ta


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[Redway]

Originally Posted by Zizu

If anyone can explain this post please let me know by PM to avoid any more unpleasantness !

Ta


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“Like, seriously, stop. Just stop.” to people who spit a lot. I used my post as an umbrella to refresh the context, not because I was talking to myself. Come on, man.

[Zizu]

Originally Posted by Redway

“Like, seriously, stop. Just stop.” to people who spit a lot. I used my post as an umbrella to refresh the context, not because I was talking to myself. Come on, man.

Well you should have edited out your name from the first post then because it just looks like you replied to your self as Nate Diaz once did , famously



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[Redway]

Originally Posted by Zizu

Well you should have edited out your name from the first post then because it just looks like you replied to your self as Nate Diaz once did , famously


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No, I shouldn’t have, because most people would’ve understood. This isn’t wrongplanet.com, Zizu. The whole forum doesn’t resolve around you and your contextual understanding/misunderstanding of basic social subtext. And it’s actually quite rude and entitled to expect people to bend over backwards for you, one person in a sea of members. That might sound rude but it’s just my perspective at this point. You have to remember that most people (including mutual Aspies/PDD-NOSers) come equipped with better inherent understanding of basic social nuance than you naturally, for all your talents and positive traits, whatever they are (I definitely don’t know what they are).

I’m sure there’s some good in you. But this constant insistence on derailing conversations with forced confusion with someone you know has drawn a certain line of boundary with you isn’t one of them, I’m not even gonna lie.

I’m not really tryna fall out with anyone over this, especially not a good friend like Kate, but when this line between confusion and wilful disruption keeps getting thinner and thinner, I’m gonna be honest this end of my tether, aren’t I? Space and benefit of the doubt haven’t worked. Yeah? Let’s be real.

Stop demanding the world rearrange itself so you never have to face the natural consequences of your own behaviour, you foolish moron.

[Ammi]

…^^^^…I somehow feel that this is maybe someday going to be one of the most iconic TiBB friendships and bonds of all forum time…like Shrek and donkey…Tom and Jerry……Joey and Chandler…Bert and Ernie…?….yep…

[Niamh.]

Zizu, not sure why you think it's so odd that Redway quoted himself? I've quoted myself before, basically when I wanted to add something to what I'd already said or highlight a point I'd made previously