[Fetch The Bolt Cutters]

http://www.thisisbigbrother.com/foru...3&postcount=14

[Withano]

Originally Posted by Kizzy

LT invented ok Jan to be fair.

Wait really?! I assumed it was from a telly programme or something, pretty sure I've said it in real life too to trick people in to thinking I was cool ffs

[Withano]

Originally Posted by Jamie89

My grandma'a always called me dear... I never realised she was actually being a shady bitch

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Withano

Wait really?! I assumed it was from a telly programme or something, pretty sure I've said it in real life too to trick people in to thinking I was cool ffs

Sure Jan is from the Brady Bunch

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by That Girl

http://www.thisisbigbrother.com/foru...3&postcount=14

Is LT sweaty ? that's a bit of an insult

[Withano]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Sure Jan is from the Brady Bunch

Oh good, i probably did come across as very cool after all

[Tom4784]

Originally Posted by That Girl

i did get infracted for calling someone sweaty once and it still hasn't been reversed

You only have one active infraction so the one you're talking about probably expired ages ago

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Withano

Oh good, i probably did come across as very cool after all

Spoiler:

Youtube video

[Withano]

Why dont people just stop making friends with the rulebreakers to avoid all disappointment?

Did I just solve everything?

[Fetch The Bolt Cutters]

Originally Posted by Dezzy

You only have one active infraction so the one you're talking about probably expired ages ago

but it expired, it didn't get reversed



so now i get 1 infraction worthy post for free

[Withano]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Spoiler:

Youtube video

Hahaha thanks

[Jamie89]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

I think we all have certain friends on here ,it's like life, we will like some people and not others, it's no big deal ,as a forum it should reflect real life,I think some people know my feelings towards them also I get their feelings about me, that is why I do not respond very much to some people, not everyone will get on, but saying that I think the way you feel about people MUST have some knock on reaction when you are in charge of something , obviously you will be kinder to people you like than those you don't, it's just the way it is,people communicate and sometimes infractions given seem quite petty considering what others get away with, I do not think you have to be 'nice' just because someone is a mod,they are no different to us,just have more power on here.

I don't know if it has to have an effect in terms of infractions. I used to manage a team of people as my job and there were some I liked and others I didn't, and there were numerous times I'd have to discipline people I liked and I never looked for reasons to discipline the people I didn't like, it was just formalities of the job but then when chatting with people it would probably show who I was friendlier with, and I assume it's a similar kind of thing with moderating, they have a mod side that the rest of us don't see where they give out infractions etc, but then they have a poster side where friendships will probably show and who they like/don't like etc which is fair enough... I think the problem is that people assume from looking at their posts and who they're friendly with how they must be acting as a moderator but noone actually sees that except the other mods, and I'd assume that if someone was moderating unfairly it would be pretty apparent to the others and something would be done about it.

[Withano]

Originally Posted by That Girl

but it expired, it didn't get reversed



so now i get 1 infraction worthy post for free

Calm your tits, sweaty.

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by Withano

Why dont people just stop making friends with the rulebreakers to avoid all disappointment?

Did I just solve everything?

I think we can make our own minds up as to who we like as friends don't you? If we didn't speak to anyone whoever broke a rule we'de be friendless.so NO you've solved nothing

[Tom4784]

Originally Posted by That Girl

but it expired, it didn't get reversed



so now i get 1 infraction worthy post for free

[Withano]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

I think we can make our own minds up as to who we like as friends don't you? If we didn't speak to anyone whoever broke a rule we'de be friendless.so NO you've solved nothing

Oh right, my super serious suggestion didnt solve it. I'll keep working on it.

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by Jamie89

I don't know if it has to have an effect in terms of infractions. I used to manage a team of people as my job and there were some I liked and others I didn't, and there were numerous times I'd have to discipline people I liked and I never looked for reasons to discipline the people I didn't like, it was just formalities of the job but then when chatting with people it would probably show who I was friendlier with, and I assume it's a similar kind of thing with moderating, they have a mod side that the rest of us don't see where they give out infractions etc, but then they have a poster side where friendships will probably show and who they like/don't like etc which is fair enough... I think the problem is that people assume from looking at their posts and who they're friendly with how they must be acting as a moderator but noone actually sees that except the other mods, and I'd assume that if someone was moderating unfairly it would be pretty apparent to the others and something would be done about it.

I accept that Jamie89,but hand on heart I find it easier to approach some mods than others as they seem neutral ,I may be wrong,but that is how I feel.

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by Withano

Oh right, my super serious suggestion didnt solve it. I'll keep working on it.

That's the spirit

[user104658]

A few people are convinced that moderating isn't impartial because I don't get infractions and bans. What they seem to be failing to notice is that I'm just rly rly nice

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by Dezzy

How so?

For a start some members can't be arsed reporting posts even if they see them as a rulebreak so many infraction worthy posts are possibly missed, whilst others seem to have the report button on speed dial so some posters are reported time and time again so that's inconsistent for a start

[Withano]

Originally Posted by Cherie

For a start some members can't be arsed reporting posts even if they see them as a rulebreak so many infraction worthy posts are possibly missed, whilst others seem to have the report button on speed dial so some posters are reported time and time again so that's inconsistent for a start

How could you possibly have that information

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Cherie

For a start some members can't be arsed reporting posts even if they see them as a rulebreak so many infraction worthy posts are possibly missed, whilst others seem to have the report button on speed dial so some posters are reported time and time again so that's inconsistent for a start

Everyone on the forum has equal reporting rights, it's not our fault if they all don't use them at the same rate

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by Withano

How could you possibly have that information

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Everyone on the forum has equal reporting rights, it's not our fault if they all don't use them at the same rate

I'm going to have my finger on that report button from now on, avalanche incoming Niamh

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Cherie

I'm going to have my finger on that report button from now on, avalanche incoming Niamh

[Withano]

Originally Posted by Cherie

I'm going to have my finger on that report button from now on, avalanche incoming Niamh

I wasnt expecting to lose that argument at all, let alone in under two minutes!