[Cherie]

Originally Posted by Toy Soldier

I think tbh ingeneral there's plenty of intercourse going on but, it does sometimes occur to me that ANY label on sexuality is only relevant to single life... and also, that the importance of it all is amplified whilst single. When you're partnered up does any of it really matter all that much? But then I do think there's a general problem in some circles with people overemphasising the importance of sexual preference in their general concept of self. I'm not saying it isn't important, just that it should really be a relatively small component of a human being as a complete entity... and that very often people who DO make it the centrepiece of their existence can end up feeling a little bit empty later on.

Agree I think the UK as a whole has an unhealthy obsession with sex