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Originally Posted by JerseyWins

Bear being this horrible person has to be one of the most twisted things on a TV show ever. And I'm glad the general public saw that.

He won by 1% after half of the audience quit watching.

Originally Posted by JerseyWins

He had fun and messed with people. He bothered & annoyed people, often purposely, but in very joking, relatively non-malicious ways - he wasn't some vicious bully to people or targeted an individual person to try to break them or something. People actually ganged up on and bullied HIM for his actions of messing around with them. They called him way worse things than he ever said to anyone else. The main hurtful thing he ever said was the boobs comment he told Marnie to say to Saira but that's a grade school insult while they were drunk & playing a game (an immature grade school game lol). He was otherwise pretty clean with what he said and just got ****ted on constantly for his "annoying" antics, pranks, goads at times if you wanna call it that, etc.

Haha yes I remember in high school the game where we got a girl to flash our mid 40s teacher with her boobs because she was annoyed by us misbehaving, good times But seriously "pretty clean?" He humped James while singing "I'm Horny" on like what Day 3? Pranks and goads are one thing but imagine living with the same repetitive cycle of it 24 hours a day for a month. Do you not realise the trauma that leaves on people?

Originally Posted by JerseyWins

He egged them on but he also never whined that he was getting this treatment in return and getting shunned and trash talked for it. He took it back on the chin basically the whole time and he'd stop once people got very visibly upset. He's a prankster and people are going to not like that sometimes... it's not like he was an angel but he wasn't evil either. There were much more mean-spirited people in that season's cast ALONE.

Aww that Bear is so sweet tolerating people getting mad at... him making people mad. And lmao no he never stopped. The closest he got to pacifying himself usually lasts for a couple minutes and then we're back to passive aggressively unbearable. And took it on the chin? He CONSTANTLY whined about what people thought of him while simultaneously using self pity to annoy people. That's what a goader is.

Originally Posted by JerseyWins

He's not very different from people like Jedward, Kim, Perez, Sam & Jordan from CBB20 and multiple others. I get some of these others aren't liked either but still. These are people that liked to have a go at others or just have some fun at others' expense but they're not malicious or outright mean in their actions and Bear is included in that.

You're right he's not very different. In fact he's the complete opposite. Jedward and Kim were both just really defensive people who got winded up easily and delivered snide comments as a result, Perez was just messy to live with and had no house power to bully people like Bear did and lol Sam and Jordan? I legitimately can't remember anything they did apart from dance with each other like toddlers

Regardless you can make as much excuses as you want for domestic abuse lasting 30 days but if an entire house feel victimized and attacked by someone (to the point where one even had to see a therapist while in the house) then there's a problem and it's still abuse.

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