[Beso]

Originally Posted by Kizzy

I need to confess, I've hit my some more since he turned 18 and exceeded 6ft than I did when he was smaller than me, am I still a bad mum?

No, but i bet you cried after it.

[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by parmnion

No, but i bet you cried after it.

I did ...

I only get that ratty when I'm exausted so now instead of arguing back he just puts the kettle on

[Beso]

Originally Posted by Kizzy

I did ...

I only get that ratty when I'm exausted so now instead of arguing back he just puts the kettle on

Because he is/was at an age where the shock factor works....young kids, imo just dont get why they are being hit.

[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by parmnion

Because he is/was at an age where the shock factor works....young kids, imo just dont get why they are being hit.

Oh he knew alright... if I go to work and come home 14hrs later to a sink full of pots he knows banshee mum is about to make an appearance

[Beso]

Originally Posted by Kizzy

Oh he knew alright... if I go to work and come home 14hrs later to a sink full of pots he knows banshee mum is about to make an appearance

Im calling you the matriarch from now on...not to your face though.




My mum made it worse cause she only hit me when i was about that age as well, purely out of dissapointment and frustration.

To about the age of 13 it would be wait till your dad gets in....and i always did. As did he.

After about an hour of sobbing, after enduring both the raged "6 of the best" hand mark on the legs enducing skelps, and the "in your room" punishment, she would come through and cuddle into me...


The old good cop bad cop routine..luckily im giggling at the memories if im honest.

[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by parmnion

Im calling you the matriarch from now on...not to your face though.




My mum made it worse cause she only hit me when i was about that age as well, purely out of dissapointment and frustration.

To about the age of 13 it would be wait till your dad gets in....and i always did. As did he.

After about an hour of sobbing, after enduring both the raged "6 of the best" hand mark on the legs enducing skelps, and the "in your room" punishment, she would come through and cuddle into me...


The old good cop bad cop routine..luckily im giggling at the memories if im honest.

Naw... inconsistent parenting can't beat it