[Elliot]

Originally Posted by saiwong

I knew beforhand that tempers are high and alot of people are angry at what Roxy did, and its totally understandable.

But from the summaries of the Roxy's appearence on Jeremy Vine that I've read, are totally different from what I saw.

When people are in a hightened and angry state, when watching the interview, their mind adjust what they see
to something that is more acceptable to them. Their mind filters out what they want and don't want to accept.
Some people never want to forgive Roxy, so their mind filters what they see occordingly. So in the
end what they experience is different from what actually occured.

Does this behaviour sound similar to what some other individual did ?

If you were to watch this interview in a months time when everyone has calmed down, you will see a totally differently interview.

I've had personal experience of someone close to me who's been through traumatic events, and the way Roxy is behaving is
very similar. People who have been through trauma can easily be 'triggered' by certain actions however passive and non-aggressive,
and consequent action can be hurtful. The hurt is real but not intentional and once the person has calmed down and see what they
have done they are apologetic.

Roxy sould listen to Amelia and get professional counseling to help manage trauma.

She’s inflicting trauma on other people with her trauma. A line has to be drawn somewhere.

Even IF she did go through what she is attesting to, which I doubt the more and more I read up about her and listen to her but that’s not my place, it’s not an excuse. Some of the more evil criminals in the world have been through trauma probably, yet where is their sympathy facing life sentences? Why should it be any different for Roxanne? If she was raped and as a result raped people, would you be saying the same thing?

Also, let’s not forget, hundreds of people that she’s worked with, including 21 of her costars, can attest to the behaviour being displayed here. Why do you think she asked to speak to the producers? Is it not obvious she knows damn well that what happened isn’t how she is describing, which is why she can only operate in the shadows? Was Sally not 100% correct, that any person who seriously thought they were in danger would’ve left and got a lawyer?