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Originally Posted by ShakeyJake10
Like literally noone is shocked. He pretty much talked about it since the start i would have been shocked if nothing had been mentioned at all. But the fact he basically eluded to the fact that cia ruined his game plan. And it's 2018 like does anyone even care
I think my coming out story would be more interesting as I actually can't physically come out to my family and friends as I would lose everyone
I'm very religious and in a religion where homosexually is condemned my dad literally would disown me if I told him the truth I'm also married with children and noone in my family and friends know who I truly am as I can't say. And as long as I don't act on my feelings I'm ok with that. Before I get slated I love my wife to pieces but i have always been attracted to the same sex since like the age of 8 it seems to be getting worse and I feel trapped
So Cameron making it a big deal when his family and friends will be perfectly ok with it and he has a massive circle of friends who will be ok with it kind of is infuriating for me
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You sound as if you are in a very difficult and complicated situation. I admire you for having the strength to conceal your real identity in order to respect your family and your faith. I also admire you having the courage to share your story here. Coming out for you sounds almost impossible, so I understand your frustration, and your infuriation at Cameron.
However, even though his family know and are supportive, he is clearly very anxious about other people in his life and their potential reaction. I would imagine everyone who comes out faces dilemmas and challenges which make them fearful about revealing who they are. I think it probably is a big deal to Cameron even though, compared to your situation, it seems relatively easy.
I hope that you have someone you can confide in and who is able to support you when things feel tough. I also hope you are able to find some peace with your decisions and situation.