[Garfie]

Originally Posted by Ammi

..they can refer to Sian as they wish to, with whatever terminology they choose to use..(..whether it’s merited or not..)....but the irony comes when they’ve judged and criticised others for their wording and terminology as well...as with sexual talk...their ‘level’ and terminology is okay and dandy and acceptable apparently...but the others use of terminology is quite base and crude and unacceptable to them...they make the rules and they scream the rules... but they don’t practice them, is the thing for me...

You are right. They have one rule for themselves but are highly bitter towards and critical of anyone who behaves as they do. It always makes me laugh the way the irony is so lost on them!

It's like they repeatedly refer to others as snakes and reptiles when they are the most poisonous and venomous pair in there. Again they totally miss the irony.

Is it called transference, when you perceive in others the behaviour you are actually displaying yourself?