[Mokka]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

Yeah, but how far is someone with a partner going to take it with a stranger on an app. Sex/nudes concerning strangers, obviously porn is purely consumed through a screen, but so is a large percentage of the nudes culture who never actually meet. With the progression of technology I think the lines are blurring.

I guess far enough to seek a one on one intimate connection with one person through an app as opposed to watching just the physical acts of sex between a couple of actors in porn. I would be way more upset by a partner looking for someone else for a personal attachment/connection even if it is just on line, sexy or not, than a partner getting turned on by a sex or porno scene. We all have our own visual turn ons.... but emotional connections are the intimate part of the relationship... not to be shared... I guess unless you are polyamourous or something.

[Matthew.]

Originally Posted by Adam.

Porn is immorally wrong

pull your jeans up, that’s immorally wrong

[Beso]

depends what they were looking at i guess....like if a big fat woman was living with a bloke and she found out he was looking at skinny asses on the porntube then i think she should have every right to pull him up on it.

[Livia]

I do not think porn is cheating.

[Beso]

Originally Posted by Toy Soldier

There is a SMALL amount of ethical porn where the people doing it are genuinely happy and simply very open and extrovert for their own properly considered reasons but we're talking like 1% of the porn you'll find online here. The massive rate of ex porn stars talking about how unhappy they were should be a huge indicator. And that's the recognisable ones / big names... I can only imagine how the ones who already look like they're trying not to cry whilst one guy gives them a prolapse and another cums up their nose for a one off payday feel about it afterwards.

And THAT only goes into porn actually made in the US / UK etc... A huge amount of porn online is Southern American, Eastern European, and East Asian. Are we really going to pretend that these people are having fun?

Meh. Don't get me wrong I used to watch plenty of porn when I was younger. One day I just sort of realised how horrendously depressing it actually is.

ts, staring down at his limp dick, cheese grater in hand.....

[Redway]

Originally Posted by Toy Soldier

To verify my personal opinion? Yes actually I've just done an exhaustive poll. Every Toy Soldier from TiBB was asked to verify that this is Toy Soldier from TiBB's personal opinion, and 100% of respondents said "Yes" . Pretty conclusive stuff there doc.

You don’t seem to have an issue doing that everyone else. According to you people’s views on parenting are meaningless without hard statistics

[user104658]

Originally Posted by Redway

You don’t seem to have an issue doing that everyone else. According to you people’s views on parenting are meaningless without hard statistics

Oh so you're carrying a snippy personal vendetta over from another thread. No, we won't be doing that, I'm not even slightly interested.

[Jack_]

What people do in their own company with their own...hands...is not really anyone else’s business, relationship or not.

[user104658]

Originally Posted by parmnion

ts, staring down at his limp dick, cheese grater in hand.....

I have a wife Parmy, we don't all need porn for sex .

To be fair though I also didn't say that I never have a good ol' wank, but I also have an imagination that's far more vivid than any porn and also doesn't harm anyone . Honestly Parm, you're old enough to remember the good old days! When all you needed was a box of tissues and the underwear section of the Index catalogue! I despair for the youth of today who can't get off without watching some poor desperate Russian teenager getting an anal perforation and a nasty STI.

But whatever works I guess.

[user104658]

Originally Posted by Jack_

What people do in their own company with their own...hands...is not really anyone else’s business, relationship or not.

I also agree with that and I don't particularly care if anyone else watches or enjoys porn; I'm just explaining the reasons that I personally dislike it.

[Jack_]

Originally Posted by Toy Soldier

I also agree with that and I don't particularly care if anyone else watches or enjoys porn; I'm just explaining the reasons that I personally dislike it.

Oh I wasn’t addressing your posts (I’ve not read the thread tbh) I was just answering the title

[Twosugars]

Originally Posted by Toy Soldier

I have a wife Parmy, we don't all need porn for sex .

To be fair though I also didn't say that I never have a good ol' wank, but I also have an imagination that's far more vivid than any porn and also doesn't harm anyone . Honestly Parm, you're old enough to remember the good old days! When all you needed was a box of tissues and the underwear section of the Index catalogue! I despair for the youth of today who can't get off without watching some poor desperate Russian teenager getting an anal perforation and a nasty STI.

But whatever works I guess.

gonna answer you again bc the picture of porn you paint is ott
unless you are into some s/m or other brutalisation/humiliation scenarios I don't recognize your doom and gloom. Been watching porn (gay) for years and vaaaast majority of it is fun, especially amateur.

[GoldHeart]

Originally Posted by Twosugars

gonna answer you again bc the picture of porn you paint is ott
unless you are into some s/m or other brutalisation/humiliation scenarios I don't recognize your doom and gloom. Been watching porn (gay) for years and vaaaast majority of it is fun, especially amateur.

I think the problem is alot of these websites have the extreme stuff mingled in or weird title's for the shock factor , there's been youtube videos of people's reactions to some of these (obviously you don't see anything but you see their disgusted reaction). But i assume the average movies are full of models who are happy with what they're doing .

[user104658]

Originally Posted by Twosugars

gonna answer you again bc the picture of porn you paint is ott
unless you are into some s/m or other brutalisation/humiliation scenarios I don't recognize your doom and gloom. Been watching porn (gay) for years and vaaaast majority of it is fun, especially amateur.

Like I said 2S I don't know if the gay porn scene is different but the majority of straight amateur porn on sites like pornhub, etc, the females are quite blatantly exploited and don't look like they're having a very good time. Frankly, the BULK of straight amateur porn is humiliation / degradation scenarios... At least to the extent where you'd have to sift through a tonne of it to find the "good videos".

Then you have the more polished stuff where everyone seems to be enjoying it and having a good time. But then, most ex porn stars who seemed to be having a great time in their videos, when they later quit or retire, report that they were actually pretty miserable and turned to it for the money as they felt they had no choice.

Again like I said I'm not judging anyone for watching or enjoying it, each to their own, I just find it near impossible to get my rocks off watching it and not just then feel totally empty inside.

[Beso]

Originally Posted by Toy Soldier

I have a wife Parmy, we don't all need porn for sex .

To be fair though I also didn't say that I never have a good ol' wank, but I also have an imagination that's far more vivid than any porn and also doesn't harm anyone . Honestly Parm, you're old enough to remember the good old days! When all you needed was a box of tissues and the underwear section of the Index catalogue! I despair for the youth of today who can't get off without watching some poor desperate Russian teenager getting an anal perforation and a nasty STI.

But whatever works I guess.

The shower section for the naked bums...or carol vorderman if it was a quickie.

[TwentyOneThrones]

Is it *****

I've been perfectly fine for the last 5 Weeks. It's not unfaithful of me to watch some Helix Studios when he's away

[Crimson Dynamo]

I guess if dear wife comes home and sees her husband ejaculating to 100% gay porn with a large but plug implanted in his anus and with lipstick on she may have some concerns


also she should fckg knock next time

[Livia]

There are loads of women in positions of power in the porn industry. Female producers, female directors... while I'd agree it's iffy in other countries, I don't believe that the UK and US, and even most the European porn industry is detrimental to the women who work in it. They get paid more than the men for a start. So long as the women are safe, doing it of their own free will and not being coerced in any way, I support them.

[Twosugars]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

I guess if dear wife comes home and sees her husband ejaculating to 100% gay porn with a large but plug implanted in his anus and with lipstick on she may have some concerns


also she should fckg knock next time

should have locked the door, LT

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by Twosugars

should have locked the door, LT