[Tom4784]

Originally Posted by Toy Soldier

Again, respectfully informing a partner of a decision, even one that isn't going to change, is clearly not "asking for permission" it's basic decency in any relationship. To reiterate, not saying that anyone "has to" do anything, but on a personal level, I wouldn't be in a continuing relationship with someone on those terms.

He pleaded with her not to have an abortion so he knew. It's not like she just upped and popped an abo-bo pill one day and even if she did, it's her right to do so.

When it comes to the pregnancy process, we are just, at best, supportive spectators. It's not us going through it's effects. The man's actions are both money grabbing and it sets a dangerous precedent that can set women's rights back, he's an arsehole.

It's down to the women's discretion whether they want to discuss it or not.