[Crimson Dynamo]

When you look up at your private message and its in bold and you think "oh what lovely message is this "and then its an infraction or a profile warning or a ban that is not right.

These type of messages should come in another way and a member should not think "oh God what have I done now" every time he (or she) gets a private message


As a member who rarely understands what it is I have actually done wrong (but am sure i have broke the rules ) I find this constant state of anxiety not good and i think we can all agree this needs to be sensitively addressed in this inclusive time in which we live??


I cant be the only member who suffers from "Private message inbox infraction anxiety disorder" ?

[sleleen]

I wouldn’t mind having an infraction thread or something, I don’t care who knows about my infractions and I think most people are the same, so I don’t care if they aren’t private

[Cherie]

or as I like to call it PMIIAD....

[Matthew.]

Originally Posted by sleleen

I wouldn’t mind having an infraction thread or something, I don’t care who knows about my infractions and I think most people are the same, so I don’t care if they aren’t private

This

[Twosugars]

Originally Posted by sleleen

I wouldn’t mind having an infraction thread or something, I don’t care who knows about my infractions and I think most people are the same, so I don’t care if they aren’t private

Yup, let's have transparency

[Beso]

A certain mod usually outs the infracted person in random threads anyway.

[Morgan.]

Yeah a public infraction thread would be welcome. It would be interesting to see what people are infracted for so we know where we stand in rules, and it works for transparency reasons too.

[sleleen]

Originally Posted by Blurryface

Yeah a public infraction thread would be welcome. It would be interesting to see what people are infracted for so we know where we stand in rules, and it works for transparency reasons too.

This

[bots]

No infraction thread. It will just encourage member baiting

[Josy]

Heres a plan.... this answers the other thread too I guess, how about at least trying not to get infractions

[Amy Jade]

if there were a public infractions thread there is a chance someone could take advantage of it and bait someone to try and get them a ban.

Saying that I wouldn't be bothered if mine were public at all. We all make mistakes after all.

[Shaun]

I think they should be handwritten by Josy and handed out to our parents at a TiBB Parents Evening

That or put out a notice in the member's local paper, informing their area that they've used a derogatory term about the disabled or whatever.

[Josy]

Originally Posted by Shaun

I think they should be handwritten by Josy and handed out to our parents at a TiBB Parents Evening

That or put out a notice in the member's local paper, informing their area that they've used a derogatory term about the disabled or whatever.

I will look into this

[Vanessa]

I know, I hate it as well.

[Beso]

Originally Posted by Josy

Heres a plan.... this answers the other thread too I guess, how about at least trying not to get infractions

Please don't try and take what I have left of my life away from me josy

[thesheriff443]

Originally Posted by Josy

I will look into this

My parents are worst than me😱

[Withano]

Every time I get a PM, I assume its a well-thoughout out from-the-heart message from a close pal. What are these infractions?

[Marsh.]

Yeah, I assume every notification I get is an infraction/warning/ban.

When it's a wall message or actual PM I'm pleasantly surprised. Although that is only 5% of the time.

[Matthew.]

No need to close it

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by Shaun

I think they should be handwritten by Josy and handed out to our parents at a TiBB Parents Evening

That or put out a notice in the member's local paper, informing their area that they've used a derogatory term about the disabled or whatever.

No way, i am still getting over being mistaken for Vicky's son at the last one

[Cal.]

I’m not bothered as I don’t get them

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Cal.

I’m not bothered as I don’t get them

You're like the perfect child

[Cal.]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

You're like the perfect child

Brightening up your day

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by Cal.

Brightening up your day

when will you brighten mine

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Cherie

when will you brighten mine

When you stop reporting RileyH