[Cherie]

Strip o grams, are they still a thing? LT would look forward to his daily dose then

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by Alf

Remember that Southampton lesbian thread I referred to earlier? I had a post that simply said "no" deleted in that thread, it was a reply to the member Twosugars, go check it out if you think I'm lying.

Why when you reply with "no" is it OK, but not for me?

Get out of that one!

I know josy said she messagd you. But I will answer this too as just checked it out. Your no was deleted as it was quoting a deleted post. If theres more to a post than one word answers (Ie. Had you gone into detail of an opinion on the topic) then sometimes we manually delete the quoted post bit to leave your post standing..but your no would not have made any sense without the original post, which was deleted

[Ant.]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

How would those who dislike the PM method like them to be sent? I cannot actually think of another way that would..let members know they have one.

I'd rather not be told!

Let me break the rules and be confused as **** when I'm banned not knowing truly why!

[Kate!]

I may be in the minority here but I would rather have my infractions by PM. Its private then.

[Ant.]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

Carrier pigeon please.

By the time it gets here it will be expired.

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

Carrier pigeon please.

By the time it gets here it will be expired.

Ooh smart arse...

[Glenn.]

All mine are expired now so this doesn’t affect me

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by Glenn.

All mine are expired now so this doesn’t affect me

Reported for baiting.

[Ant.]

I've got another 3 months until all my expire?

THE ****?!

[Glenn.]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

Reported for baiting.

I am reformed

[Ant.]

I think we should have a thread where we can contest our infractions. As a prospective mod (my goal is to be a mod by Christmas this year!) I simply CANNOT have any infractions, it ruins my CV AND reference! Consequently I need them removed ASAP!

[Alf]

Originally Posted by Ant.

I think we should have a thread where we can contest our infractions. As a prospective mod (my goal is to be a mod by Christmas this year!) I simply CANNOT have any infractions, it ruins my CV AND reference! Consequently I need them removed ASAP!

Do you mean a fair trial, where we can defend ourselves by putting our case across?

That would be too civilised.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Alf

Do you mean a fair trial, where we can defend ourselves by putting our case across?

That would be too civilised.

It isn't civilised at all Alf because we did have an appeals section at one point which we had to close because of how uncivilised people would become in there

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

It isn't civilised at all Alf because we did have an appeals section at one point which we had to close because of how uncivilised people would become in there

Plus the exact same abuse goes on in PMs to staff currently. So this shows that the same issues would be there if the appeals forum as reopened.

[James]

Making infractions public isn't a good idea, and people would soon complain. Often an infracted post is part of a series of deleted posts, so the rest of the forum wouldn't be able to understand the context.

The appeals forum was more trouble than it was worth. It just encouraged complaints and people rarely admitted they'd done something wrong.

[Livia]

There would be uproar if there was a public thread and people could see some of the petty stuff people get infracted for.

[Vanessa]

Everytime I have a pm I think : what have I done?

[Beso]

Originally Posted by James

Making infractions public isn't a good idea, and people would soon complain. Often an infracted post is part of a series of deleted posts, so the rest of the forum wouldn't be able to understand the context.

The appeals forum was more trouble than it was worth. It just encouraged complaints and people rarely admitted they'd done something wrong.

Can you please at least, post all the reasons you can be infracted for...we can then make a tic list thread where we just tic the ones we have had one for.....ALL OF THEM THOUGH..even the weird ones.

[Mitchell]

I’m an angel