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Old 08-01-2020, 02:41 PM #10
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Finished it last night

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Felt so so sorry for Marie, 3 years of being painted as a liar and dropped by friends and "family" and still trying to deal with the trauma of being raped on top of all that.

What struck me in the earlier episodes when the two male cops "got her to admit she was lying" was the first conversation they had outside the interrogation room about how some boys life was almost ruined by a girl crying rape and how awful it was and he sued her and rightly so etc. It just reminded me of so many times I've heard similar about rape cases and rape cases where it wasn't even "proven" that the girl was lying, they just didn't have enough evidence to convict the guy (or they did imo but he was let off anyway) Like people (more especially men) really want to not believe women who say they were raped and how the opinion seems to be that "false rape accusations" is so much worse than rape. It feels like on some level alot of men think unless the women is beaten to a pulp as well as raped then she probably invited it in some way. And I'm sorry if that comes across as sexist or a massive generalisation but that is what it feels like.

The contrast then to when we see the second victim and the female detective, how she's spoken to and treated with care, warmth and empathy rather than hostility, disbelief and abruptness. How both the female detectives are so angry about what happened to these women and how much they want to catch this guy.

I thought the phone call at the end from Marie to karen Duvall was really nice. And I liked how the original detective got his comeuppance. I was hoping to see her horrible Foster mother finding out but maybe they lost contact due to her unsupportiveness through out?

Also, I wonder if they ever did get into the rapists files that they were struggling with cracking?

Anyway, absolutely great series, disturbing and terrifying both because of what the rapist did to these women but also because of what the Police, those who were supposed to be on Maries side did to her. But I'm glad this show was made, maybe some people who always doubt the victim in crimes like this may get another insight by watching......but lbr they probably won't even watch it
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...she was fairly much cast out by the society around her...but she stole chose that at the time, rather than continue with what she was being out through...it was all like a continuation of her rape ordeal..it was just heartbreaking to watch...and terrifying g at the speed in which it was all ‘erased’ once she said that it never happened...for the first time in the case, there seemed an enthusiasm.....and to think that this would have been ‘buried by the system’ forever, had the rapist not taken his videos and ‘trophies’...and how rare must that be, for a rapist to do that...to have those things, which in the end was the only evidence to some of his victims...

...just mentioning her ‘horrible foster mother..’... how just because she danced on a table in a slightly provocative way at a picnic...she was caused to doubt her completely....?...that made me so sad......if the female detectives hadn’t been part of the case, I doubt the truth would have come to light...
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