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Originally Posted by rusticgal

Which is why he should be having a conversation with that person...instead of running back and telling Meghan and then telling the whole world.

"Running back and telling Meghan" ?? She's his wife she's not a random ! .

[LukeB]

Originally Posted by GoldHeart

"Running back and telling Meghan" ?? She's his wife she's not a random ! .

Funny thing is all these people whining about Meghan ‘lying’ are now saying Harry should have not told her, by that he would be lying to her

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Originally Posted by LukeB

Funny thing is all these people whining about Meghan ‘lying’ are now saying Harry should have not told her, by that he would be lying to her

Truly baffling

[Parmy]

Originally Posted by LukeB

Funny thing is all these people whining about Meghan ‘lying’ are now saying Harry should have not told her, by that he would be lying to her

All these people?

Where are the damn mods..**** sake.

[Christmas Dynasnow]

Originally Posted by LukeB

Funny thing is all these people whining about Meghan ‘lying’ are now saying Harry should have not told her, by that he would be lying to her

|Not mentioning a conversation you had isnt lying to someone??

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Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

|Not mentioning a conversation you had isnt lying to someone??

They're a couple they love eachother,why wouldn't he tell her?. If he kept it from her then that would be keeping secrets .

[Parmy]

Originally Posted by GoldHeart

They're a couple they love eachother,why wouldn't he tell her?. If he kept it from her then that would be keeping secrets .

But she was suicidal, hes either thick or sinister if it's TRUE.

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Originally Posted by parmnion

But she was suicidal, hes either thick or sinister if it's TRUE.

or incredibly cruel

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Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

or incredibly cruel

Twist it all you want

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Originally Posted by GoldHeart

They're a couple they love eachother,why wouldn't he tell her?. If he kept it from her then that would be keeping secrets .

its not a secret and couples do not share every convo they have each day

that would be ridiculous

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Originally Posted by GoldHeart

They're a couple they love eachother,why wouldn't he tell her?. If he kept it from her then that would be keeping secrets .

Well I love my husband but a few years ago someone said something that I didn’t want him to hear because it wasn’t a good time for him....she didn’t tell him and I never told him what she was about to tell him...that’s called looking out for someone you love and not giving them unnecessary angst...
...that’s my kind of love for someone. However if you think love is not giving a **** about causing your partner unnecessary trauma...then good for you.

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Originally Posted by rusticgal

Well I love my husband but a few years ago someone said something that I didn’t want him to hear because it wasn’t a good time for him....she didn’t tell him and I never told him what she was about to tell him...that’s called looking out for someone you love and not giving them unnecessary angst...
...that’s my kind of love for someone. However if you think love is not giving a **** about causing your partner unnecessary trauma...then good for you.

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Originally Posted by GoldHeart

That says it all...

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Originally Posted by rusticgal

Well I love my husband but a few years ago someone said something that I didn’t want him to hear because it wasn’t a good time for him....she didn’t tell him and I never told him what she was about to tell him...that’s called looking out for someone you love and not giving them unnecessary angst...
...that’s my kind of love for someone. However if you think love is not giving a **** about causing your partner unnecessary trauma...then good for you.

How would your husband have felt though if she had told him and then told him you knew all about it? Surely that would seem like more of a blow? For me, if I had to hear something that I was not going to like, I would prefer to hear it from someone I loved and who loved me back rather than anyone else.

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Originally Posted by AnnieK

How would your husband have felt though if she had told him and then told him you knew all about it? Surely that would seem like more of a blow? For me, if I had to hear something that I was not going to like, I would prefer to hear it from someone I loved and who loved me back rather than anyone else.

For me personally, if my wife had been keeping something (anything more than something very minor) "for my own good" and then I found out about it later by other means and that she already knew... It would probably damage our relationship quite severely. I know different people have different relationships but yeah, we often see things on TV where one half of a couple didn't know something "big" that the other knew and we're like "lol how does this happen I'd have been straight on WhatsApp..."

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Originally Posted by AnnieK

How would your husband have felt though if she had told him and then told him you knew all about it? Surely that would seem like more of a blow? For me, if I had to hear something that I was not going to like, I would prefer to hear it from someone I loved and who loved me back rather than anyone else.

Yep I'd absolutely feel the same. Look, I'm sure Rustic knows her own husband better than any of us do and every relationship is different, what works with one couple wouldn't suit every couple, neither is out rightly wrong though and in my relationship I'd rather know what was going on and rather my husband told me

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Originally Posted by AnnieK

How would your husband have felt though if she had told him and then told him you knew all about it? Surely that would seem like more of a blow? For me, if I had to hear something that I was not going to like, I would prefer to hear it from someone I loved and who loved me back rather than anyone else.

If he was to have found out and knew that I knew he would understand that what I did was in his best interests considering the situation at the time...as I said he had been through some trauma and wasnt in the best mind set. If you love someone its only natural to protect them...thats not deliberatly lying its protecting. Since Meghan was supposidly suffering with mental health issues and finding it hard to adapt Harry could have addressed this issue with the family member and sorted it out without taking it back to his fragile wife and making her feel even worse.

Had my husband not been in a fragile state at the time then I obviously wouldnt have intervened...

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Originally Posted by LukeB

Funny thing is all these people whining about Meghan ‘lying’ are now saying Harry should have not told her, by that he would be lying to her

Well I wouldn’t expect you to understand the concept of keeping something from your wife that may hurt her....