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Originally Posted by Toy Soldier

The reasons for it are irrelevant when discussion whether or not it has an impact on someone perception of their own freedom; I assume there are valid security reasons for it but that doesn't mean it doesn't feel trapping, and that someone who has realised that they feel trapped by it might want to leave.

But I know the stock response to this is, "Well she should have realised what she was getting into/Harry should have done a better job of explaining it to her" but that's "captain hindsight" stuff and it's not "immoral" to get into situations that you find yourself hating because of getting carried away in the excitement/lack of information. Nor is it immoral to then want to leave that situation.

No, not my response. I don't need to scrape the barrel for reasons to justify what I've said about this 'I was trapped' nonsense. I'll leave the barrel scraping to others.