[Strictly Jake]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

I know and you'd never think it to look at him (not that you can judge on that but ya know) he always came across (to me anyway) as very kind of soft spoken, gentle, butter wouldn't melt, not that I knew alot or saw alot of him

Most abusers are like that. Physical abusers or mental abusers. It what helps people to side with them usually