[user104658]

Originally Posted by Jordan.

Sure it's appalling, your demographic need to do better.

Either this person is in the older white bloke demographic (because self-ID is inherently problematic and open to abuse by predators, which is the main argument that most people currently branded “TERFs” make) OR self-ID is safe and valid in which case, this person is a trans woman and member of the LGBTQ+ community.

You literally cannot have it both ways.