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Originally Posted by Cherie

doesn't he know women can multitask and can look after more than one child at a time

Vilifying someone for their romanticised spooky feelings about their dead mum is a bit much surely Cherie? She's not actually literally doing anything for either of them and hasn't since the day she died, because she is dead, but if her memory and a bit of fiction can make someone feel better about their dead parent... maybe that's OK?