[ThomasC]

Originally Posted by Mystic Mock

How old are you?

I'm 26 and have still never had sex, let alone a girlfriend.

Tbh though I like my weird life for the most part, I don't have to compromise on much.

31

Yeah a lot has to do with society norms when you see most people in love and have partners. You can't help but think you'll forever be alone.... It would have been nice to find someone I could enjoy my younger years with, but then on the flip side I wouldn't have had so much fun.

I didn't go to Australia till I was 25/26 and had never really had proper sex till then, but once I started I couldn't really stop....I got this hormonal bug and wanted to shag everything with a pulse

So there's still time, lots of time....and sex can be quite meaningless anyway, it just meets a need...once you've got your rocks off its onto the next.

I'd love to say you'll be fine and you'll meet someone, but everyone says that and it hasn't happened for me in 31 years so I won't bull**** you. It's hard, but MAYBE one day we will find someone.

I think the secret is probably trying to live your best life.... Focus on you and what you enjoy...get yourself out there and socialise... I'm preaching because I don't do it myself and have no hobbies. My mum constantly badges me to join a club or something, but I can't be bothered and I'm restricted in what I like.

My hobbies at the moment I suppose you could say are this place, my job and keeping fit, I also like YouTibe, Netflix.....they're not very social hobbies. Lol... For me my job is my life.....this whole notion about having a work and life balance doesn't really work for me because my job is my life, it's my purpose and I take great satisfaction in going out to work and then coming home knowing I've worked hard