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Originally Posted by hijaxers

I really think Harry, Harold , Haz is stuck at age 12. all these silly things that still bother him most people grow out of, way before age 40.

I think despite his best efforts he still has significant trauma from when his mother died, certainly. I don't think he's "stuck at 12" but let's play devil's advocate and say you're right and he is indeed a perpetual 12 year old.

Who do you think is ultimately the cause of that?

Because I don't think you're entirely wrong and I think William beneath a wafer-thin veneer is also much more hot-headed and volatile than an adult should ideally be. They both still display some "petulant teen" tendencies AND their relationship as brothers is not that of adult men, but teenage boys.

That can ONLY be down to how they were raised after Diana died.

I.e. A lack of real parenting. Raised by "the institution" and their schools.

Charles and all of his generation are the same.

Harry has at least tried to break away from it and forge a new path... Unfortunately the therapy he's sought out is the Americanised/Hollywood celeb brand of self-improvement that's far from ideal and he'd have been better served by some real philosophy and exploration rather than Los Angeles pop stuff but... It's better than nothing.