[Kate!]

Originally Posted by Redway

Hopefully. The battle’s ultimately the Lord’s so sometimes you’ve just got to trust that God will deal with then mercilessly when the time comes.

I told my brother that I hoped God struck him down for what he and my sister in law did, and I meant every word.

[Redway]

Originally Posted by Kate!

I told my brother that I hoped God struck him down for what he and my sister in law did, and I meant every word.

I don’t blame you, Kate. There are probably people out there who think I low-key dislike them for various reasons (I’ll admit I can be quite flakey when it comes to the timing of what I say I’ll do and that can let people down) but I genuinely have nothing but love for those people and I’m always going to hold my hands up and admit if I’m genuinely the one in the wrong (which I can be, just as we all can be). But that’s a completely different situation from actually hating on people who really did you dirty and when that line’s crossed that’s it. Maybe God will take pity on them but as far as my own good books are concerned they’re toast and probably always will be. I’m a very easy-going, friendly sort of person naturally but when it comes to people I genuinely hate I’m never going to pretend that I wish then anything but bad tidings. All it’s within my hands to do is just leave well alone and keep that distance (I leave revenge to God) but I don’t wish people like that well at all.

And listen, I’m really sorry you had such a bad experience with your brother and sister-in-law. It sounds like they were horrendously in the wrong.

[Kate!]

Originally Posted by Redway

I don’t blame you, Kate. There are probably people out there who think I low-key dislike them for various reasons (I’ll admit I can be quite flakey when it comes to the timing of what I say I’ll do and that can let people down) but I genuinely have nothing but love for those people and I’m always going to hold my hands up and admit if I’m genuinely the one in the wrong (which I can be, just as we all can be). But that’s a completely different situation from actually hating on people who really did you dirty and when that line’s crossed that’s it. Maybe God will take pity on them but as far as my own good books are concerned they’re toast and probably always will be. I’m a very easy-going, friendly sort of person naturally but when it comes to people I genuinely hate I’m never going to pretend that I wish then anything but bad tidings. All it’s within my hands to do is just leave well alone and keep that distance (I leave revenge to God) but I don’t wish people like that well at all.

And listen, I’m really sorry you had such a bad experience with your brother and sister-in-law. It sounds like they were horrendously in the wrong.

They really were Sam. They took my mums ashes and scattered them without me and my son. They raided my mums jewellery box and took all her valuables despite the fact that I'd been left those things in her will.

[Redway]

Originally Posted by Kate!

They really were Sam. They took my mums ashes and scattered them without me and my son. They raided my mums jewellery box and took all her valuables despite the fact that I'd been left those things in her will.

I can’t even imagine how tough that must have been for you.