[user104658]

Honestly can't say I've heard anything as an adult.

When I was about 15 and hadn't had a proper girlfriend yet, I heard someone refer to me as "an untapped resource" ... Which I guess could be taken as flattering, but boy did I play that line over and over in my head!

TBF I was a tall & sexy bugger but quite quiet and shy as a kid/early teen (if you can believe that). Then my family descended further into chaos and for whatever reason I became a cocky, elitist little arsehole in response. Objectively I was ****ing horrible but it worked out much better socially . Confidence is key, I guess.

Luckily I am NONE of those things now .