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Originally Posted by elliebrew

Some when someone says something unsavoury, then that is them wrote off for life? Youre not willing to allow them to change?

You think being so fatalistic is being a decent person?

Not at all, but I certainly wouldn’t try and explain why it’s justifiable to any degree. She wasn’t 12 when she wrote those messages. If someone posted a message online right now along the same lines, would you say “ah, but they’re only 22”. No, you wouldn’t. She should be held accountable, and say sorry. I didn’t once say her life is over.