[Maru]

Her being upset privately is not "mean and spiteful" or anything like that. She's entitled to her feelings, whatever they were, in life and in death. Whether it is true or not, she didn't make her own association with it a public matter and that should be the bigger consideration. Why does anyone feel the need to trumpet their associations with anything royal or celebrity? It only impacts Lilibet negatively in the end. Perhaps they could've kept the usage of that name privately, but they wanted the association to be very public clearly. It's especially difficult for the girls as the media tends to become obsessed with the female family members as they grow up, so I can only think this was a very bad judgement call on their behalf if they wanted them to grow up away from "that life"...