[Benjamin]

Originally Posted by GoldGlitter

The first messages I was drunk and didn't know you had a bf.

You did and that’s not an excuse. That is why I ignore the PM’s you send me. But again, not sure what this has to do with the topic.

[thesheriff443]

Originally Posted by Benjamin

You did and that’s not an excuse. That is why I ignore the PM’s you send me. But again, not sure what this has to do with the topic.

I think it’s a way of communicating with you to be honest

[Ray.]

Well this thread took a rather interesting turn

[thesheriff443]

Originally Posted by Ray.

Well this thread took a rather interesting turn

Only if you are a nosey bastard

[GoldGlitter]

Originally Posted by Benjamin

You did and that’s not an excuse. That is why I ignore the PM’s you send me. But again, not sure what this has to do with the topic.

It has everything to do with the topic because you tried to make me feel guilty about those messages but then I see you posting in hot guy thread about men you fancy.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by thesheriff443

Only if you are a nosey bastard

Me

[thesheriff443]

Originally Posted by GoldGlitter

It has everything to do with the topic because you tried to make me feel guilty about those messages but then I see you posting in hot guy thread about men you fancy.

The two are totally different

[Black Dagger]

~grabs the popcorn~

[thesheriff443]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Me

Of course

[Niamh.]

Ben breaking hearts and taking names

[Benjamin]

Originally Posted by GoldGlitter

It has everything to do with the topic because you tried to make me feel guilty about those messages but then I see you posting in hot guy thread about men you fancy.

Erm no, I never made you feel guilty, I never even responded. I ignore your PM’s. The only reason I’m bringing it up is because I’m responding to you saying I’m ignoring you.

[Ray.]

Originally Posted by thesheriff443

Only if you are a nosey bastard

I watch a reality show called Big Brother.

Nosey?

Perish the bloody thought.

[thesheriff443]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Ben breaking hearts and taking names

Dion Warwick playing in the background

[AnnieK]

Ben.....ever the heartbreaker

[Liam-]

I think I’d get the ick if I was with someone and they decided that they couldn’t ever find anybody else nice to look at

[thesheriff443]

Originally Posted by AnnieK

Ben.....ever the heartbreaker

He must be using my picture

[Zizu]

Originally Posted by Benjamin

Prompted by the recent convo in The Hot Guy thread.

Is it acceptable to find other people attractive/pretty/handsome etc if you’re in a relationship? (I’m talking purely looking/commenting about another person).

100%


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[Zizu]

Originally Posted by Cherie

wanders over to the hot guy thread...

yeah its fine, you cant avoid looking at people would be a bit controlling for a partner to get jealous over it I think anyway

Exactly


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[Zizu]

Originally Posted by Benjamin

I think he is a very good looking guy. Would I sleep with him, no, because I’m in a relationship.

This is common sense stuff , surely


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[Zizu]

Originally Posted by AnnieK

Absolutely.....appreciating someone for their looks is fine. Acting on it is different.

Exactly


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[Zizu]

Originally Posted by Gusto Brunt

If you're looking at other people, then you're in the wrong relationship.

Nonsense. … even if you are in a relationship then it is perfectly acceptable to find celebrities or complete strangers attractive


I don’t even know why we are discussing it


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[smudgie]

Of course it’s ok.
Nothing better than appreciating all things beautiful around you.
You are still your own person, nobody else owns you or should try and stop how you think.

[Zizu]

Originally Posted by smudgie

Of course it’s ok.
Nothing better than appreciating all things beautiful around you.
You are still your own person, nobody else owns you or should try and stop how you think.

Yes

The whole idea is preposterous


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[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by smudgie

Of course it’s ok.
Nothing better than appreciating all things beautiful around you.
You are still your own person, nobody else owns you or should try and stop how you think.

It doesn't even make sense anyway, if you can tell people are good looking when you're single how would you suddenly not be able to tell when you're not?

[Zizu]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

It doesn't even make sense anyway, if you can tell people are good looking when you're single how would you suddenly not be able to tell when you're not?

Plus why would you suddenly stop finding people attractive when you commit to someone


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