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Apparently because someone made a pass at someone and then found that same someone oogling Pedo Pascal in the Hot Guys thread.
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aw I have a wee crush on Ben myself even though I am straight and married, its his chutney making skills that draw me in
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Nonsense. … even if you are in a relationship then it is perfectly acceptable to find celebrities or complete strangers attractive


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It doesn't even make sense anyway, if you can tell people are good looking when you're single how would you suddenly not be able to tell when you're not?
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aw I have a wee crush on Ben myself even though I am straight and married, its his chutney making skills that draw me in
Same here. He's a bit of alright

Plus he has my number one quality in a person, which is humour.
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Why can't you do that. You've all been sayings it's ok unless you act on it.
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are you in a relationship and when you masturbate do you think about other people?
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Why can't you do that. You've all been sayings it's ok unless you act on it.
Because ogling someone walking down the street is disrespectful and rude to that person and rude and disrespectful to your partner too
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My Mom and Dad would never have stayed together if they got bothered by things like this.
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My Mom and Dad would never have stayed together if they got bothered by things like this.
…yeah for sure, a relationship is built on trust as a foundation and ‘you can’t look at other people and appreciate their attractive qualities’ isn’t a mindset that places trust…it feels very much the opposite and placed on mistrust of a partner…
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…yeah for sure, a relationship is built on trust as a foundation and ‘you can’t look at other people and appreciate their attractive qualities’ isn’t a mindset that places trust…it feels very much the opposite and placed on mistrust of a partner…
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If you're in a really happy one, there's not much cause or opportunity to masturbate.
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It's extremely blinkered and a touch controlling to expect your partner to not find others attractive. Theor is certainly no harm in finding a celebrity physically attractive.....considering the chance of you ever meeting them is ridiculously low.
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