[Swan]

Originally Posted by Adamw92

How many lesbians have you known that have suddenly decided they fancy men? If people of specific sexual orientations felt it possible they would label themselves as bisexual, bicurious or even pansexual. The way people on here are so fixated on her apparently fancying the men she’s found a dislike for just to use it as a way to invalidate her sexual orientation is what’s ridiculous. Do you go around saying to any straight person you meet when they tell you they categorically could not fancy someone of the same gender that they’re ridiculous for believing so?

I dont think she fancies any men in the house, which i've stated elsewhere. But are you seriously saying a gay person is immune to fancying a straight person, or vice versa?

Gender and sexuality are 2 very different things. Stop attempting to blur the lines.

[Adamw92]

Originally Posted by Swan

I dont think she fancies any men in the house, which i've stated elsewhere. But are you seriously saying a gay person is immune to fancying a straight person, or vice versa?

Gender and sexuality are 2 very different things. Stop attempting to blur the lines.

Tell me where I blurred the lines between gender and sexuality? I asked if you say the same thing about it being possible for a straight person to fancy someone of the same sex… which would mean fancying a man… therefore they wouldn’t be straight.

A straight person is very clearly immune to fancying a gay person, yes. Otherwise they wouldn’t call themselves gay. They can appreciate someone is good looking, doesn’t mean they have any sexual attraction to that person.

Edit: thanks for pointing out my mistake.

[Swan]

Originally Posted by Adamw92

Tell me where I blurred the lines between gender and sexuality? I asked if you say the same thing about it being possible for a straight person to fancy someone of the same sex… which would mean fancying a man… therefore they wouldn’t be straight.

A gay person is very clearly immune to fancying a straight person, yes. Otherwise they wouldn’t call themselves gay. They can appreciate someone is good looking, doesn’t mean they have any sexual attraction to that person.

Absolutely no way is that true. A straight man can, and has been smitten with a lesbian in history. The same way a gay guy would be smitten with a straight guy. No, it wont happen, but we can't help who we fall for or/and fancy.

This is my point of you blurring the lines. You are saying gay guys are immune from fancying, or falling for straight guys, and again, vice versa.

[Adamw92]

Originally Posted by Swan

Absolutely no way is that true. A straight man can, and has been smitten with a lesbian in history. The same way a gay guy would be smitten with a straight guy. No, it wont happen, but we can't help who we fall for or/and fancy.

This is my point of you blurring the lines. You are saying gay guys are immune from fancying, or falling for straight guys, and again, vice versa.

Are you being serious? I have not once stated that a gay man can’t fancy a straight man. I said a straight man wouldn’t be straight if he fancies or is sexually attracted to another man. He is at the very least bi or bi curious

[Swan]

Originally Posted by Adamw92

Are you being serious? I have not once stated that a gay man can’t fancy a straight man. I said a straight man wouldn’t be straight if he fancies or is sexually attracted to another man. He is at the very least bi or bi curious

You literally just said a gay person is immune from fancying a straight person.

It works both ways too, a straight person is fully NOT immune of fancying a gay person.

[Adamw92]

Originally Posted by Swan

You literally just said a gay person is immune from fancying a straight person.

It works both ways too, a straight person is fully NOT immune of fancying a gay person.

My bad, I just noticed. I meant it the other way around. Sorry.