[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Tom and amy fan

A friend of mine has recently told me she used to have a crush on me I have feelings for her what should I do

Originally Posted by Glenn.

Does she still have a crush on you?

Originally Posted by Tom and amy fan

I'm not sure but why admit that she used to If those feelings aren't there

….this has to be your decision ….maybe one thing to look at as well is that she didn’t say ‘I’ve always had a crush on you…’….or similar wording, it was ‘I used to….’…it isn’t necessarily something that she’s feeling in the present and there’s obviously also context to her saying it…?….so what Glenn has said is something that you need to clarify in your thoughts…if you’re thinking of acting on the words said, Lewis…if you’re feeling a strong romantic attraction to this friend…?..then obviously you need to look at your own feelings first and then the person to talk to is your friend, if that’s what you decide…