[Redway]

People who step back into your life and expect you to be exactly the same as you were 12 or 15 years ago. We have the same fundamental core, sure, but not everyone may have seen that core back in the day and in any case, we evolve as people (albeit more-so than actually become completely different people, unless we weren’t being ourselves to begin with). You can’t always just pick off where you left it in 2012.

[Ithinkiloveyoutoo]

Originally Posted by Redway

People who step back into your life and expect you to be exactly the same as you were 12 or 15 years ago. We have the same fundamental core, sure, but not everyone may have seen that core back in the day and in any case, we evolve as people (albeit more-so than actually become completely different people, unless we weren’t being ourselves to begin with). You can’t always just pick off where you left it in 2012.

I'm not the same as 2 years ago. I'm mentally and socially tired. Been avoiding people and ignoring messages for now until I gather the strength.
Takes a lot of energy to maintain relationships and be as chirpy and giving as I was a year or 2 ago. When people call me my pet name I inwardly say "she's died a year ago"

[Zizu]

Originally Posted by Ithinkiloveyoutoo

I'm not the same as 2 years ago. I'm mentally and socially tired. Been avoiding people and ignoring messages for now until I gather the strength.
Takes a lot of energy to maintain relationships and be as chirpy and giving as I was a year or 2 ago. When people call me my pet name I inwardly say "she's died a year ago"

Awww

Sending you a virtual hug !

I suffer from perpetual depression and anxiety but the only thing that helps is listening to happy, uptempo uplifting music .. sometimes even that can’t help of course


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[Ithinkiloveyoutoo]

Originally Posted by Zizu

Awww

Sending you a virtual hug !

I suffer from perpetual depression and anxiety but the only thing that helps is listening to happy, uptempo uplifting music .. sometimes even that can’t help of course


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Music is great therapy for sure.

[Redway]

Originally Posted by Ithinkiloveyoutoo

I'm not the same as 2 years ago. I'm mentally and socially tired. Been avoiding people and ignoring messages for now until I gather the strength.
Takes a lot of energy to maintain relationships and be as chirpy and giving as I was a year or 2 ago. When people call me my pet name I inwardly say "she's died a year ago"

Hugs. You’ve got this.

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Ithinkiloveyoutoo

I'm not the same as 2 years ago. I'm mentally and socially tired. Been avoiding people and ignoring messages for now until I gather the strength.
Takes a lot of energy to maintain relationships and be as chirpy and giving as I was a year or 2 ago. When people call me my pet name I inwardly say "she's died a year ago"

…I mean, you are that same person, CeeCee…but just at a different time in your life and maybe not feeling such a ‘social’ vibe of being around people…but that’s cool too because it gives you the space to focus on you and that’s a great focus to have and one that’s much needed at times…..