[BBXX]

Originally Posted by Ammi

…also, just a little random thing that someone once said to me/a gay friend who was married…that he and his partner tend to ‘admire’ the same people in terms of who they find attractive…they can both say, oh yeah he’s gorgeous etc…because they have a mutual attraction to the same gender…?…that’s not the case with heterosexuality, is it…so for some that can create a jealousy I guess…

Perhaps! I also think that's another thing, there does tend to be some more 'openness' within gay relationships. Not a huge amount, but some, which in turn could reduce infidelity which will be a huge cause of separation and divorce.

I myself don't have an open marriage, but a couple of people I know do. Different folks and all that, but all they seem happy.

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by BBXX

Perhaps! I also think that's another thing, there does tend to be some more 'openness' within gay relationships. Not a huge amount, but some, which in turn could reduce infidelity which will be a huge cause of separation and divorce.

I myself don't have an open marriage, but a couple of people I know do. Different folks and all that, but all they seem happy.

…and obviously with same sex male partnerships…no disagreements over room decor because they both have great taste……I mean, that’s a given isn’t it…

[BBXX]

Originally Posted by Ammi

…and obviously with same sex male partnerships…no disagreements over room decor because they both have great taste……I mean, that’s a given isn’t it…

I am looking at a lamp my husband just bought and begging to differ ...

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by BBXX

I am looking at a lamp my husband just bought and begging to differ ...

…that’s kind of a right of passage to any/all relationships, though…we all have a lamp like that…that’s how we know whether they’re ‘keepers’ or not….sometimes it’s a chair, sometimes it’s a lamp, sometimes it’s wall art….etc…if we still adore them regardless, though…?….then we know our heart is true…