[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Strictly Jake

That's great if you can

Im not doing too great currently at the moment. Life's just got a bit on top of me the past couple of days. Im struggling. My wife had a major op a couple of weeks ago and having to juggle what comes with that plus dealing with the 3 kids and also working two jobs im feeling a bit what I describe as fizzy my whole body is vibrating and my head feels empty and full at the same time. Plus a bit down as my friends and family who all said they will be round me all the time to give me help and will do whatever we need, just haven't seemed to care all that much now the operation has happened and instead they are all socialising together constantly and posting it on Instagram about what a great fun time they are all having so thats not making me feel too great

So yeah postponing this felt right as not in the headzone currently for it.

…I’m sure that they do care and if maybe give specific tasks/chores etc on a list of things that you need help with most and then allocate one thing to each who have offered…?…and say, as they wanted to snd offered to help, would it be ok to do that specific thing as you’re struggling a bit atm to fit everything into your days.…?….