[Ithinkiloveyoutoo]

Originally Posted by Ammi

….absolutely go CeeCee, a holiday still be great for you and (…I think…)…that you delayed last years…it’s to relax your mind as well as your body and we all need that and whether you went or didn’t go, that weight would still be the same so it’s a bit of a no brainier….goooooooo…!!!!!…and only think about having a wonderful time and a great break/holiday…

…anything else that you might look at in your life…?..as Scarlett and Moira Rose would say…tomorrow is another day…/…have the best time, my love…

Hello I definitely do need the time off. True the weight is there regardless. Either be miserable at home or a lovely country abroad. lol.

[Ithinkiloveyoutoo]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

Go and enjoy yourself. We're all different shapes and sizes. Be confident and proud.

[Ithinkiloveyoutoo]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

When I go to the beach I bring my tent. It gives me privacy and that makes me more confident.

Oh that's a good idea I never thought of that.

[Redway]

Three of your poll-options are basically saying the same thing, to be fair. But go. No-one’s judging.

[caprimint]

If you don't feel comfortable then I'd probably say don't go because you won't really enjoy it if that's all you're thinking about the whole time, but if you're not that bothered then definitely still go because nobody else cares what you look like at all. So it really depends on your own thoughts/feelings. How about when you go to the beach you could wear something that covers your body (like a light dress/long shirt sort of thing) if that makes you feel any more comfortable?

[Mystic Mock]

If I can go outside, then anyone can.

[Mystic Mock]

Originally Posted by Swan

I know exactly where you're coming from with the comfort eating, i've been doing mine late at night pretty much for the past 3 months. It all started when my Granddad (who brought me up and was basically my dad) only had a few months left to live. He passed away 5 weeks ago, but i remember dreading the funeral because of all the noticeable weight. I even had to buy a new suit because of the extra few stone.

It's crazy how quick it piles on, i was a few lbs off a 6-pack in March.

But anyway, yes, you go, 100%, fck what others think of you, and trust me no one will care, it's all in our heads.

Just say fck it, and go have some fun and enjoy yourself!

I'm sorry to hear about your Grandad, Swan.

Nothing feels right when you lose a family member, especially if you had a really strong bond with the person.

[Oliver_W]

It's no-one else's business what you look like and it's none of your business what other people think, so who cares, just go on whatever holiday you want

How to become Beach Body Ready:
Step 1 - have a body.
Step 2 - take it to the beach.

[Ithinkiloveyoutoo]

Originally Posted by caprimint

If you don't feel comfortable then I'd probably say don't go because you won't really enjoy it if that's all you're thinking about the whole time, but if you're not that bothered then definitely still go because nobody else cares what you look like at all. So it really depends on your own thoughts/feelings. How about when you go to the beach you could wear something that covers your body (like a light dress/long shirt sort of thing) if that makes you feel any more comfortable?

I'm trying to not be bothered but I'm probably fooling myself BUT BUT on the upside, beach is not the only thing I have planned. I do have other things lined up and I'm hoping that it will be so good that I won't be bothered about looking like a house

[Ithinkiloveyoutoo]

Originally Posted by Mystic Mock

If I can go outside, then anyone can.

[Ithinkiloveyoutoo]

Originally Posted by Redway

Three of your poll-options are basically saying the same thing, to be fair. But go. No-one’s judging.

Except mean shallow people.

[Ithinkiloveyoutoo]

Originally Posted by Oliver_W

It's no-one else's business what you look like and it's none of your business what other people think, so who cares, just go on whatever holiday you want

How to become Beach Body Ready:
Step 1 - have a body.
Step 2 - take it to the beach.

Great words to live by for sure.

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Ithinkiloveyoutoo

I'm trying to not be bothered but I'm probably fooling myself BUT BUT on the upside, beach is not the only thing I have planned. I do have other things lined up and I'm hoping that it will be so good that I won't be bothered about looking like a house

…on the upside, you may have an earthquake or a hurricane or tsunami there so you don’t get a chance to wear that bikini on the beach……seriously though, take it with you and when you get there…wear it if you feel like it/don’t if you don’t …just absorb and enjoy everything you want to on your own terms…..

[Ithinkiloveyoutoo]

Originally Posted by Ammi

…on the upside, you may have an earthquake or a hurricane or tsunami there so you don’t get a chance to wear that bikini on the beach……seriously though, take it with you and when you get there…wear it if you feel like it/don’t if you don’t …just absorb and enjoy everything you want to on your own terms…..

Am...Ammi Let's keep natural disasters out of the convo

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Ithinkiloveyoutoo

Am...Ammi Let's keep natural disasters out of the convo

…you know that there won’t be any such thing as those, I’m just talking nonsense, of course…but seriously, take your bikini and see what you feel when you get there…you’ll wear it if you feel that you want to but your holiday time will have so much to offer and so many options, regardless…