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Originally Posted by Cherie

What if there is someone is the office called Zee

Where is Alfie
Ze is over there

honesty the gymnastics you do to justify this shite is just impossible to get my head around

Okay, that's fine Cherie, you do you and stay mad over... erm... the way other people identify.

Originally Posted by Cherie

Just hold a moment Alfie while I google what I need to refer to you as...okay

I think if someone says "my pronouns are ze/zir/zem" the majority of gender neutral people would absolutely welcome clarification to avoid offence.

"Alfie, I'll be honest I'm not that familiar with those pronouns, can you just tell me the correct situation to use each one in so I make sure I get it right".

Like why am I having to teach a grown adult how to converse in a respectful way.