[Redway]

Originally Posted by Mystic Mock

I see what you mean.

Tbh it's all so messed up nowadays, trying to know what the boundaries are seems to dramatically vary.

I know what you’re saying, I do. But I honestly wouldn’t have thought you per-se would have any issues in that department in the first place. The thing to remember is that there’s a difference between harmless glaze (finding someone attractive, which is only natural) and reductive fixation + fixated ranking, and not to take away from female solidarity or things women do for themselves alone, having that autonomy over bodies that they know better than anyone, because then it can come across as male entitlement for a woman to look a certain way, even if that’s not the intention.

But, again, I don’t think that’s a problem for you per-se. I’ve never gotten that vibe from you. Other people on this forum, most-definitely. But you’re good. Trust me.