[Lauren]

Also RE: Wildcat - I don't have an issue with people abstaining. It's a personal choice completely and does not effect me in the slightest what they decide to do.

I do have a problem with the people that preach to me that I'M wrong by having sex before marriage, and that it's impure to do so. I think sex in a marriage is extremely vital, but not solely important - along with a variety of other things it paves the way for an enjoyable marriage.